"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Aristippus said:
Don't make fun of a health problem or appearance issue related to it. That's off limits. No need to beat a person when they're down.
I would never be a d1ck about it and make her feel bad but what about just a little teasing? She'll be expecting me to smirk and find it a bit funny so if I just keep a totally straight face when I see her isn't that being afc?
I honestly think she likes to be teased a bit because that's what she seems to respond to. She's always telling me how her stepdad makes fun of her lisp (from having 2 loose teeth) and how people say she looks like a meerkat lol she doesn't say it like she's offended at all.
I think she's been treated badly by guys in her past so that's what she responds to...any time I've teased her before she never gets upset she just goes all girly and shows me puppy dog eyes like she's pretending to be hurt...

She told me that I was always too nice to her and she wasn't used to people treating her like that. She actually said "you always treated me nice, maybe too nice" I'm thinking that's one of the reasons she became so disinterested in the later stages of the relationship.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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