"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to turn a ONS on vacation into a casual f**k buddy?

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vorbis

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Met this girl on vacation in Cancun there last week. Ended up banging her (should write a LR on it, was an interesting night). She's about a HB6 and nearly 20yo.

For too many reasons to mention she's certainly not ltr material, fairly heavy drug user (moderate myself) and fairly directionless in life. She's also a bit mental.

The flip side is the crazy side is harmless enough and she doesn't live in the same city as me. She's in New Jersey and I'm in Boston. She wouldn't be a bad one to meet every once in a while and have sex with. I broke up with my gf in January so this kind of casual arrangement would be ideal.

I'm not sure how to set this up though. She wants to come to Boston and party with me. Problem is that she's on a completely different wavelength to 99% of my friends. She's liable to say anything. I'd also feel a tad sleazy bringing out a 19yo. I'm 27. Should I be trying to just go visit her in NJ? Or is this a bad idea altogether?

Btw for any comments about me "taking advantage of her", that's not the case, she's no doy eyed innocent!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you don't want her to meet your friends, don't let her. I personally probably wouldn't do it, either. Why not meet halfway and hang out somewhere? Get a hotel room somewhere in the middle, maybe even NYC and hang out, fvck, do whatever you want with her.
 
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My friend is after making this awkward for me. He hooked up with the 22yo friend of my one. I put in the groundwork and laid his girl on a plate for him. Now he's after inviting his bird up to Boston!! I'm a bit pissed. I had my one agreeing to meet up in New York. I'm probably stuck now having to invite my one up as well. Personally I think it's a selfish move on his part as his bird is 22 and not as likely to say something daft. Am I overreacting? I have to admit I'd feel a bit awkward introducing a 19yo to people I know.
 
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