"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How To Turn A Girl Off?

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Juan_Man

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All advice is appreciated but please refrain from the whole "Act like an AFC, buy her dozens of flowers, and tell her you love her" advice. I know that it works but I don't want to do anything that will make me look like a fool. I also don't want to be seen as a jerk (although a little resentment is inevitable).

Also, how do you pursue a girl when you told another girl that you weren't interested in dating anyone at the moment?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Part 1: Just act distant, in a conversation contribute the bare minimum. Allow conversations to die. Use silence. Most guys here have the opposite problem... just read some of the screw up reports, and do what they did.

Part 2: Just do it.(Crap nike lawyers at my door again.) Why care what you told another girl who YOU don't care about?
 
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be totally tactless, obnoxious etc

ridicule her opinions openly. she wont stick around :p

be very careful though. u might not wanna burn bridges
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My advice: don't. Let her be the one to become uninterested, otherwise they will be talking s.hit about you all over the female network.
 
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slap her dad in the face wit yo big ass ****. right in front of her. then make her daddy yo ***** ans say she aint got a chance in hell
 
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Show up to her house in front of her parents wearing nothing but a smile on your face:D
 
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Call her a "HOR" - it works everytime!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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