"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to turn a GF into FB?

PierrotLeFou

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Hey guys,
My girlfriend spontaneously confessed sleeping with another guy for a couple of days during a 2 months vacation.
She said she didn't realize how much she loved me, that she was thinking about me, didn't have any feelings for the guy, that she didn't want to lose me and so on. For some reasons I want to keep fvcking her and hanging out with her when she comes back. I'm constantly getting better overall in my life at the moment and want to improve my game.
How should I turn her into a FB? Should I be straight with her or tell her I "forgive" her then work on my game on the side? Right now I don't give much **** about morality TBH. I'm thinking about efficience.
On another point, she had absolutely no reason to tell me straight up and insisted in doing it by video call. I'm obviously a work in progress and a (chump) part of me thinks she might have meant it, and might actually want to be forgiven. What do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thorninmyside

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I'd FB some fresh meat instead. Cheating wh0re doesn't really deserve your d!ck anymore, does she? I don't think taking her back even in a different role really sends the message that you're a strong guy not to be sh!tted on.
 

Lozboss

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PierrotLeFou said:
Hey guys,
My girlfriend spontaneously confessed sleeping with another guy for a couple of days during a 2 months vacation.
Dump her immediately, Go full No Contact, don't even bother to say you are doing it- she deserves the pain of no closure

She said she didn't realize how much she loved me, that she was thinking about me, didn't have any feelings for the guy, that she didn't want to lose me and so on.
Of course she did- she's guilty and trying to rationalize it. She's a cheater. NEXT

For some reasons I want to keep fvcking her and hanging out with her when she comes back.
You have Oneitis- get rid of this NOW

I'm constantly getting better overall in my life at the moment and want to improve my game.
Then be single and spin new plates- trash is trash

How should I turn her into a FB?
You shouldn't- you have oneitis and are deluding yourself that you don't.

Should I be straight with her or tell her I "forgive" her then work on my game on the side? Right now I don't give much **** about morality TBH. I'm thinking about efficience.
Then you need to revise your mindset. You will never find a quality woman/women with a lack of principles

On another point, she had absolutely no reason to tell me straight up and insisted in doing it by video call. I'm obviously a work in progress and a (chump) part of me thinks she might have meant it, and might actually want to be forgiven. What do you guys think?
I think you'd be stupid to believe that. It's hard not too as you have oneitis for this girl. Walk away and say NOTHING, full NC, block her on everything and move on
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Casillas

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She cheated on you and u really dont care? If you allow this no one will respect you bro please have more self respect.

"Once a cheater, always a cheater"
 

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PierrotLeFou said:
Hey guys,
My girlfriend spontaneously confessed sleeping with another guy for a couple of days during a 2 months vacation.
She said she didn't realize how much she loved me, that she was thinking about me, didn't have any feelings for the guy, that she didn't want to lose me and so on. For some reasons I want to keep fvcking her and hanging out with her when she comes back. I'm constantly getting better overall in my life at the moment and want to improve my game.
How should I turn her into a FB? Should I be straight with her or tell her I "forgive" her then work on my game on the side? Right now I don't give much **** about morality TBH. I'm thinking about efficience.
On another point, she had absolutely no reason to tell me straight up and insisted in doing it by video call. I'm obviously a work in progress and a (chump) part of me thinks she might have meant it, and might actually want to be forgiven. What do you guys think?
Hahaha classic, but you don't get to decide since you were the cheatee, in this case she has already decided for you,you are now her fb.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PierrotLeFou

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Solid, solid advice, especially Lozboss's
Going on a trip soon, good occasion to approach like a mad man and move on.

Thanks guys!
 

RangerMIke

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It's really up to her. First you better be REALLY good in bed.

After that... well all you have to do is ask. If she says no... well you're done, but so what just go get another woman.
 
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