"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to turn a %$@ Buddy into a girlfriend.

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So heres the situation down and dirty like.

My friend knows a really hot girl who is at a point in her life in which she's not ready to date anybody. Yet...she still craves physical touch. So, out of a miracle given by God himself, she became his makeout (****) buddy.

Yet, although he's smart enough not to tell her. He really wants her to fall under his spell. Now, he's not dorky, and is very smart and suave. However...he's scared of ****ing things up.

And truth be told...I have no clue what to say to this guy. So, I decided to bring this situation to the best of the best.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OnyxDelphi said:
So heres the situation down and dirty like.

My friend knows a really hot girl who is at a point in her life in which she's not ready to date anybody. Yet...she still craves physical touch. So, out of a miracle given by God himself, she became his makeout (****) buddy.

Yet, although he's smart enough not to tell her. He really wants her to fall under his spell. Now, he's not dorky, and is very smart and suave. However...he's scared of ****ing things up.

And truth be told...I have no clue what to say to this guy. So, I decided to bring this situation to the best of the best.
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Dude, your friend is getting the pu$$y, that's all he needs to worry about. He needs sto stop trying to make her a GF and just keep the relationship where its at.
 
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Lol, usually here its trying to turn girlfriends into &%£$ buddys that is the problem!

Your friend sounds AFC and the more he wants her and views her as the prize the more she'll run away from him!

Interesting you view the situation as a miracle... thats AFC too.:yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its very simple. Tell him to treat her as a FB and nothing more. Eventually over time, she will develop emotion and likely want to enter an LTR. However given the fact that she doesn't want a relationship, it could take more than 6 months. He has to be patient and spin other plates in the meantime otherwise he will screw things up, I guarantee it.

However if you would have read The Bible you would already know what to do. Here is a section that deals with it.

http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000535.html

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Becoming exclusive with a woman means the both of you talk about not dating or seeing anyone else. The dating with others comes to an end.
Never ask a women to become exclusive. She must ask YOU. She must talk about it FIRST.
Why? If a woman hasn't asked you yet it means she is still open to seeing others. She still has DOUBTS about you. Highly interested women don't want you going out with other women.

A woman asking for exclusivity is like a 'marriage proposal'. She is cementing and laying the foundation for true intimacy.
She wants something that's lasting. It is the ULTIMATE test of interest, guys. She is 'proposing'.

If you ask first, you will never know her true interest level. Why didn't she bring it up? How come she is still letting you see others? Why isn't she CLOSING her options? Is she seeing someone else?

Think about it.

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