Ok so one thing I often see from my friends/relatives and people on forums like these are situations where the guy is dating a girl who they feel is not as invested in the relationship as they are or the girl bosses them around, disrespects them and treats them like ****. My response is often "Don't Blame her because it's your fault"
You see in any kind of relationship with women you must be the dominant one, the one in control, the one who leads while she follows. You call the shots! Sure she can have some say so or have a opinion but at the end of the day, you have the last say so.
The ultimate attraction for a women to a man is Dominance/Masculinity. That's the reason why guys who act soft with there women or shower them with affection/little cute text messages is such a turn off for women, it's not masculine. Now it's ok to do these things but there needs to be a balance.
There is no reason why a "MAN" should be in affection mode 24/7 with his girlfriend/**** buddy.
Be a Man, lead your girlfriend, tell her what to do(nothing wrong with doing this) talk to them in a commanding tone/voice, like how your supervisor would do, or the cop that pulled you over would do or the principal at the high school you went to use to do.
I had to tell a friend of mine this last week who was telling me how his girlfriend doesn't respect him or take him serious, and I told him "well you can start by stop talking to her in such a soft way" lol. Stop talking to your women all soft and ****, it's pathetic and very much a turn off to women who are feminine by nature and want a masculine man.
Stop getting all emotional about small petty ****, that's what women do so let her Do that, you should always have a devil may care attitude to most things, especially if you have no control over it, why cry over spilled milk? You want your women to feel like as long as she's around you everything is going to be alright, you got everything under control, how can she feel like that when your being just as emotional as she is about nothing lol.
Stop Compromising so much, that's for soft people, don't believe me? Go to Google and look up the definition of "Tough" one of the definitions says, "a uncomprising person" well what's the opposite of Tough? Yep, soft.
Of course there's times to be compromising but that's just common sense so let's not spend time on that. If something is not in your best interest or if she wants you to do something that's puts you at a disadvantage then don't do it! Most guys will do it because they always wanna "please" there women which is pathetic. A Female friend of mine once said, "One thing I hate about my boyfriend is hes always so eager to please me, that **** is annoying as hell"
Stop being so "Lovey dovey" all the damn time! Jesus Christ tease her sometimes, challenge her sometimes, stop agreeing with everything she says or does. You see, guys think because she's there girlfriend they stop teasing and being playful with her, No! If anything you turn it up a notch.
One of my closest friends I grew up with who was always alpha and had his women in check always teases his girlfriend(HB8)
Always giving her a hard time in a playful way, now he's really sweet with her but he knows the perfect balance. She asks for a kiss, he playfully tells her "no, you got too much carmax on" when he picks her up for a date he jokingly tells her "damn baby, why so much make up" then she spends the next 15 minutes trying to win his approval constantly asking "do you really think I got on too much make up baby"
Stop putting up with your women's ****! Your at her house and she's being a *****, you get your things and leave, she's at your house, tell her to get it together or you will put her out.
Last week I picked up a girl I been dating for 2 months and she had a huge attitude, she was just being moody(like most women) what did I do?
Me:Listen, now I don't know what is wrong with you right now but I will be damned if ima come over here and pick you up and take you out while you got a attitude, now I wanna have a good time with you and I been looking forward to this, but you got 60 seconds to fix your attitude or I won't be taking you anywhere.
If we're on the phone and we are having some type of dispute I tell her "look I'm not about to sit on this phone going back n forth with you, call me back when your done with your little temper tantrum"
You gotta be ruthless sometimes with women when it comes to not putting up with there bull****, relax guys, she's not fragile lol she's not going to break, and trust me women are a lot tougher than we give them credit for. This is just a small but important aspect of game and dealing women, they do not respect a pushover, soft guys or clingy overly emotional/sensitive men it's not masculine and shows your not dominant, women will respect you more and treat you better, oh and you can get her to do ANYTHING in the bedroom when she see' s you as a dominant/masculine MAN lol.
You see in any kind of relationship with women you must be the dominant one, the one in control, the one who leads while she follows. You call the shots! Sure she can have some say so or have a opinion but at the end of the day, you have the last say so.
The ultimate attraction for a women to a man is Dominance/Masculinity. That's the reason why guys who act soft with there women or shower them with affection/little cute text messages is such a turn off for women, it's not masculine. Now it's ok to do these things but there needs to be a balance.
There is no reason why a "MAN" should be in affection mode 24/7 with his girlfriend/**** buddy.
Be a Man, lead your girlfriend, tell her what to do(nothing wrong with doing this) talk to them in a commanding tone/voice, like how your supervisor would do, or the cop that pulled you over would do or the principal at the high school you went to use to do.
I had to tell a friend of mine this last week who was telling me how his girlfriend doesn't respect him or take him serious, and I told him "well you can start by stop talking to her in such a soft way" lol. Stop talking to your women all soft and ****, it's pathetic and very much a turn off to women who are feminine by nature and want a masculine man.
Stop getting all emotional about small petty ****, that's what women do so let her Do that, you should always have a devil may care attitude to most things, especially if you have no control over it, why cry over spilled milk? You want your women to feel like as long as she's around you everything is going to be alright, you got everything under control, how can she feel like that when your being just as emotional as she is about nothing lol.
Stop Compromising so much, that's for soft people, don't believe me? Go to Google and look up the definition of "Tough" one of the definitions says, "a uncomprising person" well what's the opposite of Tough? Yep, soft.
Of course there's times to be compromising but that's just common sense so let's not spend time on that. If something is not in your best interest or if she wants you to do something that's puts you at a disadvantage then don't do it! Most guys will do it because they always wanna "please" there women which is pathetic. A Female friend of mine once said, "One thing I hate about my boyfriend is hes always so eager to please me, that **** is annoying as hell"
Stop being so "Lovey dovey" all the damn time! Jesus Christ tease her sometimes, challenge her sometimes, stop agreeing with everything she says or does. You see, guys think because she's there girlfriend they stop teasing and being playful with her, No! If anything you turn it up a notch.
One of my closest friends I grew up with who was always alpha and had his women in check always teases his girlfriend(HB8)
Always giving her a hard time in a playful way, now he's really sweet with her but he knows the perfect balance. She asks for a kiss, he playfully tells her "no, you got too much carmax on" when he picks her up for a date he jokingly tells her "damn baby, why so much make up" then she spends the next 15 minutes trying to win his approval constantly asking "do you really think I got on too much make up baby"
Stop putting up with your women's ****! Your at her house and she's being a *****, you get your things and leave, she's at your house, tell her to get it together or you will put her out.
Last week I picked up a girl I been dating for 2 months and she had a huge attitude, she was just being moody(like most women) what did I do?
Me:Listen, now I don't know what is wrong with you right now but I will be damned if ima come over here and pick you up and take you out while you got a attitude, now I wanna have a good time with you and I been looking forward to this, but you got 60 seconds to fix your attitude or I won't be taking you anywhere.
If we're on the phone and we are having some type of dispute I tell her "look I'm not about to sit on this phone going back n forth with you, call me back when your done with your little temper tantrum"
You gotta be ruthless sometimes with women when it comes to not putting up with there bull****, relax guys, she's not fragile lol she's not going to break, and trust me women are a lot tougher than we give them credit for. This is just a small but important aspect of game and dealing women, they do not respect a pushover, soft guys or clingy overly emotional/sensitive men it's not masculine and shows your not dominant, women will respect you more and treat you better, oh and you can get her to do ANYTHING in the bedroom when she see' s you as a dominant/masculine MAN lol.