How to treat strippers?

[guittarjedi]

Guys i don't know how to act around strippers. I was at a strip club recently and I got an all nude couch dance from a really hot blonde girl. She said to me "Why did you pick ME?" I said "because your the type of girl I'm attracted to."

Then she said "I can't believe a guy like you would pick me. It makes me feel good about myself." I was shocked. I couldn't believe what this girl was saying. She seemed to be really into me and the only thing I could think of to say was "That's good, you should feel good about yourself." She gave me the lapdance and asked if it was good. I told her she was great. Then I payed her, walked out and didn't make an attempt to talk to her anymore because I didn't know what to do or say.

I've always thought of myself as an above average guy and I occasionally get into these situations where girls are very forward with me and I become afraid that I'll say or do something to make her stop liking me.

The fact that she is a stripper makes it even more confusing for me. I don't know if I would offend her by talking very sexual to her. And if I just talk to her like a normal girl I'm afraid she would think I'm boring or not interested in her sexually. You guys are probably going to beat up on me for being so lame. Go ahead I deserve it.

 

[spidersense]

Re: How to treat strippers

Originally posted by guittarjedi
"I can't believe a guy like you would pick me. It makes me feel good about myself."

she's a stripper... she knew how to push your buttons and make you feel really good... she's a really good stripper... she did that to get you to like it and give her more money

 

[spidersense]

I never go to strip joints, but If some buddies actually talk me into it, I face a direction not pointed at the stage. if a stripper asks if I want a lap dance, I say something like "if it's free" "why would I want to pay you for a lap dance when I can easily get a more attractive woman to do it for free." a couple of times that I've said that the stripper would later talk to me and make conversation with me while I was at the bar. one of my Next!s though is if the woman is a stripper.

 

[guittarjedi]

[she did that to get you to like it and give her more money] That's a fair assumption spidersense, but I got the vibe from her that she has self esteem issues. Her breasts are small and I think she may be self concious about that. I was there for over 3 hours and I only saw her give one other guy a dance. Which surprised me because I thought she would be very in demand. I think not getting asked to give very many dances messes with these girls heads.

[one of my Next!s though is if the woman is a stripper]

I used to be the same way until I met this one.