"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how to treat ear infection/inflammation?

Levex

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i woke up today from a sharp pain in my right ear when i turned to that side. judging by the place where it hurts its Acute Otitis Externa, which is inflammation of the outer ear. pain is really sharp when i touch it, when i dont its like someone is slowly but steadily drilling a hole in my head

since its sunday i have to wait at least until tomorrow to get to a doctor.and i dont even know if he'll have any spots open.

aside from popping pain relievers anyone knows what i can do to reduce the inflammation or at least minimize the pain until i can finally get a prescription?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you probally have an infection and need an antibotic such as amoxicillin

there is an old wives tale to back a whole onion and when it gets all soft take it out and let it cool, when it cools down a little but is still warm, put it to your ear to draw the infection out...

i never tried it tho.
 

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what ever you do don't take an anti-histamine it doubles the amount of time it takes for the fluid to drain out of you ear canal this applies only if the infection has moved inward.
 

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Originally posted by willo
what ever you do don't take an anti-histamine it doubles the amount of time it takes for the fluid to drain out of you ear canal this applies only if the infection has moved inward.
i dont really know what an anti-histamine is. i'm taking ibuprofen for pain, is that alright?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds like a Health and Fitness problem.
 
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