"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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This is the first sentence in the article. It's obviously doomed right from the start.
When some chick sleeps over, I'm usually the one to wake up first. I crawl out of bed and go do 5hit, leaving her there. If I wake up with her, she'll drag me back into bed to lay around all day. I hate laying around all day. Fvck that.
If you frequently leave her hungry, she'll stick around waiting for you to feed her.
Keep the majority of the surprises to when you're fvcking her.
This is the way SHE should feel, not him. See #2.
Don't stuff her full with your time. See #2.
Women are attracted to men who make their own decisions, and make decisions for her. They need the man to lead as opposed to following the blind.
Just don't tell her everything.
This causes her to seek validation through compliments. Tell her she's beautiful on occasion when she's least expecting it.
This is general conversation which is necessary in any relationship. It's a given that you converse with anybody you're in consistent contact with. Therefore, this is irrelevant to the discussion.
Wrong. She should be crying from intense emotional spikes, regardless of whether it's due to happiness, sadness, anger, etc. If he causes the emotional spikes, he's doing everything right.
That's why you tell her on occasion.
The only "bigger" thing he should be giving her is an erect penis.
This is the only one I agree with, but she'll automatically feel safe if she feels he's confident. All the other bull5hit on the list won't make her feel she has a confident man.
...because he never makes any.
The only way a woman feels like a woman is when her man behaves like a man. He'll do a much better job at behaving like a man if he ignores all the 5hit on this list.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dgwizdal
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Great dissection Desdi. Id give you some rep but apparently I do that too often. Nice work.