How to transition?

[Gunner26]

Right it's been a bit of a while since I posted on here boys. Things are going swimmingly, back at uni now and have been gonig out roughly twice a week. Averaging a make-out once a week so pretty much every other night, which is the best form of my life.

Now, the only problem is, while getting the make-out is pretty standard now, I have no fear when it comes to dancing with a girl on the dancefloor and making a move; I can't seem to transition it to getting back to a girls place. The one time I did last week, she ended up chundering down the side of the bed before any real progress had been made and it ended any chance of me loosing my V pretty much straight away. She then tried to have after chunder cuddles with me, but I said no, got dressed and walked home.

On another note, I never seem to get with people I know, the girl last week is the first person I've ever made out with who I actually knew, all the others have been complete randoms. Any thought's as to why this may be?

But yeah, main question is how to transition from the make-out at the club to sexy time at her place?

Cheers in advance boys
Gunner

 

[Purefilth]

keep the makeout light in the club, leave her wanting more. Lead her outside to smoke/air/anyexcuse....

Then... oh wait theres a half hour queue to get back in... Wanna grab a drink at mine while we wait for this shi... to die down. Yeah its only 2 minutes by taxi.. c'mon.

then she's at yours and.... the rest is history.

Plus she doesn't feel like a slut, since you have a 'valid' reason to lead her wherever. Baby steps... lead her all the way, bull**** all the way through, she changes her mind halfway? oh well Next!

 

[Gunner26]

I see what you mean purefilth. I'll give it a go next time. Only problem with this is that all the bars/clubs around me are on the same street, it's kind of like a strip, if you can't get back into one place you just go to a different one 5/10 metres away.

I like the part about offering to go back to mine/hers for drinks though, it sounds much better than simply asking if they want to get out of the place, I mean it worked with one girl, but it felt relly forced and I felt like I was being way to forward.

 

[Purefilth]

dominate. lead. I have the same - clubs are all in the town centre here - you just gotta push the boundaries you percieve to be there. Its just the AFC in you saying 'this is wrong' ignore that sh1t, it stops you getting ahead

until you get a definite NO then anything is game

 

[thevilittletroll]

use some push pull, make out with her then push her away and say thats all you get. keep escalating, and pushing her away. dont wait till the end of the night, but on a high note just say, dont ask, tell, "lets get out of here." grab her by the hand and start walking to the door. its really that easy.

 

[Gunner26]

Ok thanks boys, was such obvious advice as well really, shame I didn't think of it myself.

But yeah I'll give what you guys said a go, I've never really done push/pull with a girl after I've started making out with her littletroll, but I can see what you mean by it, and it sounds like pretty good advice so I'll try it.

And purefilth, once again you have hit it on the head, I think it is the AFC in me being a bit of a wuss and not wanting to get rejected or feeling uncomfortable, I'll work on that too.