"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to transition? Is this an indicator of interest?

Stephen89

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So I've just looked at my Facebook home page. The announcements icon lights up in red, I click on this and I'm surprised to see this female (who is my sisters best friends sister) inviting me to a boot sale charity event in the city.

I thought perhaps she invited me by mistake, it could be.

Then again it could she's doing that to tell me she's attracted to me and asking me out?

I've seen her a couple of times when I'm either going in the train and she's coming off and vice versa and we exchange hellos to each other.

If she is sharing this invite to me to ask me out, shall I just message her: so what's this event all about? What are you hoping to get out of it?

If I ask the wrong questions, in the past a few females that were interested in me lost interest due to this.

Thanks for replies!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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She might be inviting a load of her friends and acquaintances to this event because its for a charity. You may not be the only one that has gotten an invite.

Message her....Ok I'm in...I'll pick you up at x time. What's your address? How she responds will be your answer. Good luck.
 
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