"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to transition? Is this an indicator of interest?

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So I've just looked at my Facebook home page. The announcements icon lights up in red, I click on this and I'm surprised to see this female (who is my sisters best friends sister) inviting me to a boot sale charity event in the city.

I thought perhaps she invited me by mistake, it could be.

Then again it could she's doing that to tell me she's attracted to me and asking me out?

I've seen her a couple of times when I'm either going in the train and she's coming off and vice versa and we exchange hellos to each other.

If she is sharing this invite to me to ask me out, shall I just message her: so what's this event all about? What are you hoping to get out of it?

If I ask the wrong questions, in the past a few females that were interested in me lost interest due to this.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She might be inviting a load of her friends and acquaintances to this event because its for a charity. You may not be the only one that has gotten an invite.

Message her....Ok I'm in...I'll pick you up at x time. What's your address? How she responds will be your answer. Good luck.
 
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