SackOfFlesh
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 5, 2021
- Messages
- 11
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- 5
- Age
- 25
Looking for plausible deniability recommendations.
I'm thinking maybe I should buy some wine or some **** as an excuse to go back to my apartment. I have said I gotta show you the view from the roof of my building and something about teaching me how to dance (I'm an American in Medellín right now, all the girls love dancing here and when I say I can't dance because I have 'gringo blood' they always say I gotta teach you or we gotta dance together). Of all the times we have came back 'to dance', we have never got to the dancing part
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Honestly both of these kind of seem like ****ty excuses. I know if the girl is really into you it doesn't matter, and a lot of the time I am just straight up and ask if they want to come back to my place, but I would like to set something up. Ideally what I am looking for is a fun way to continue the date, something that is location-specific at my apartment (ex: I gotta show you X, I have X at my apartment, etc etc idk) , but it needs to be something non-sexual. Once I have a girl in my apartment there are absolutely no problems whatsoever, but a lot of girls have resistance to actually getting there. They don't want to seem like a slut, they don't like how guys only want sex, etc, and straight up asking someone to your apartment without an actual reason just proves these suspicions to them. I have realized that they just need an excuse to kind of justify to themselves 'Oh I just went to do X and the sex just happened, I wasn't expecting it' even though in reality we both know what's going down. Any ideas?
I'm thinking maybe I should buy some wine or some **** as an excuse to go back to my apartment. I have said I gotta show you the view from the roof of my building and something about teaching me how to dance (I'm an American in Medellín right now, all the girls love dancing here and when I say I can't dance because I have 'gringo blood' they always say I gotta teach you or we gotta dance together). Of all the times we have came back 'to dance', we have never got to the dancing part
.Honestly both of these kind of seem like ****ty excuses. I know if the girl is really into you it doesn't matter, and a lot of the time I am just straight up and ask if they want to come back to my place, but I would like to set something up. Ideally what I am looking for is a fun way to continue the date, something that is location-specific at my apartment (ex: I gotta show you X, I have X at my apartment, etc etc idk) , but it needs to be something non-sexual. Once I have a girl in my apartment there are absolutely no problems whatsoever, but a lot of girls have resistance to actually getting there. They don't want to seem like a slut, they don't like how guys only want sex, etc, and straight up asking someone to your apartment without an actual reason just proves these suspicions to them. I have realized that they just need an excuse to kind of justify to themselves 'Oh I just went to do X and the sex just happened, I wasn't expecting it' even though in reality we both know what's going down. Any ideas?