How to Train your GF?

[SteveTheDon]

ok I love this site, read it everyday, I am slowly becoming a dj from my AFC ways... this site has let me get over my oneitis on my last gf and I got another.. so far so good..shes hooked on me..anyways heres what I want to know in this situation... How can I train the biitch:

so far I have been mind fuvcking her with things like text me in the morning, not saying I love you when she does etc.. she texts me first thing now wether I say it or not so I trained her there.. but heres the problems..

she has 2 kids.(I know red flag) but I still like her... but her kids are obnoxious lil punks... the boy is 7 but acts 3, literally thinks he can get away with anything and she lets him, the girl is 2 and cute but cries all the time... so I realize both had no dad in there life, Im not trying to be that but the boy already calls me dad then he will do annoying **** like pull on me etc.. she lets him, how do I stop him without punishing him since hes not my kid and me and her are still fresh ...man I wanna spank him sometimes lol... the other problem is that I like to drink sometimes,, she has before everytime til last time she got sick so im meeting her tomorrow i said dont u want to have a lil with me and she said NO and I said just a lil and she said NO...


so this may not be a big deal but the problem is if she gets away with telling me NO now to something this stupid she will realize that she has power.. should I ignore her so she can sense somethings wrong and drink so I win that battle? and about her kids should I just keep ignoring the little bastarrd ? other than that shes a good woman, lets me fuvk whenever, do anal etc.. just the thought of her not complying with drinking again and the other prob with her kids running over her and her letting them do whatever to me.. I just see problems in the future...
any advice?

 

[crazyboy]

Not going lie this is **** buddy situation plain and simiple. Call her bang her then leave do not involve yourself in her personal life.

 

[SteveTheDon]

Not going lie this is **** buddy situation plain and simiple. Call her bang her then leave do not involve yourself in her personal life.

Why do you say this? I do really like her.. and her actions do show a high IL.

 

[crazyboy]

Well okay look you can't discipline her children and she allow them to things to annoy like pull on you. Thats strike first all she shouldn't all her kids to be so disrepesctful toward you. Not that great of a mom. Secondly she has 2 kids which mean she is careless. Another thing you realize about this situation your always second. Your not looking to take her kids and get married with this woman. Your just looking for a good time and some punai.

Most woman with kids with high interest generally just want to **** and have male company. For your own santiy please use her as f buddy. Because this situation generally going turn ugly very quickly. Her interest height because its a fresh relationship but wait a few months when she gets comfortable and same reason why that guy is not with her is going same reason you leave her.

 

[SteveTheDon]

Thanks I appreciate your help... I am going to do just that... I see me getting oneitis again this time with her... I will keep spinning plates.. I hate this game but its the way it is or get whats left of my heart broken even more.. I guess turning 30 yrs old yesterday had me wanting to settle down fast... The right one shall come..I hope.

 

[crazyboy]

See you trying to find your happiness in women dont do that. You got good thing going if use it for what it is sex. Now you got a woman on the side, so now you go out look for other women. All in all i want you to be happy but i seen to many of my friends get serious about these women just dont. Don't let society tell you when to settle down. Your at the perfect age look for women to settle down with but your going have to be smart because like other thread alot women get married because they are reaching that age. so screen and ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE BEST OPTION. but keep banging her you need to keep your **** wet.

 

[SteveTheDon]

Thanks man, I had to rep you +1 ... I guess sometimes you feel the answer but need confirmation///,.. I feel old and lonely, you helped me feel young with options... I am the catch... she caught me but I will easily slip away back to the sea minus her eggs and in the meantime catch a few air bubbles while I am here

 

[vatoloco]

I guess turning 30 yrs old yesterday had me wanting to settle down fast...

I wanted to comment on this. Please. Be very, VERY careful with your thoughts right now on this vulnerable period in your life. I myself went through the big three-0 "crisis" as well (looking back, WTF was I thinking!) Read this thread by Kailex about when he turned 30. It's a good read: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178606

Hey, look at me. I'm 36 and I'm currently banging a cute, tight 20-year old. You don't have to settle for a single mom with 2 [fucking bratty] kids.

You still have choices.

 

[xXColdWorld23Xx]

bumptacular

 

[GameTime76]

Wake up Steve! She wants you to be the daddy! Eject now.

I personally stay away from women with kids. Now if you want to just have fun and hook up with her now and again then okay. But, dont lead her on.