"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to Tell When the Relationship Is Over

brosnake

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The following list is not all-encompassing, but rather an attempt to outline the first common signs of a broken relationship.



-She's not responding to you sexually, or her responses are much less enthusiastic than before.



-She speaks positively about other guy's actions (talking about what another guy says isn't important, but attention to his actions may signify that she's summing him up as a potential boyfriend). (Credit Pook)



-She plays mind games with you (tells you she's coming over then suddenly cancels, acts as if to test your emotional boundaries, etc).



-You no longer find enjoyment in having sex with her.



-You feel like you're stymied and you can't grow personally. Conversely, you think you may be stymying her as a person.



-The relationship is tedious, and you're constantly bickering and fighting with her.



-You no longer find yourself invigorated by her feminine aura; she just doesn't excite you anymore.



-She doesn't appear happy to see you.



-She seems withdrawn or not eager to spend time with you.


-She no longer takes the time to look sexy for you. To put it plainly, if she's not going out of her way to look good for you, then she's losing interest in you. This is an excellent first indication of trouble in a relationship.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KarmaSutra

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You forgot the most tell tale sign of all, If her ass is suddenly a gaping hole and her breath smells like a wet sock, it's due to her chuggin balls all day while taking a couple in the stink.

If it gets to this point you're an ignorant tool who deserves her.

Good list brother.
 
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