"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to Tell if the girl LIKES/DISLIKES YOU/ OR IF SHE GAMING YOU...

Badmannaz

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Okay so i've got alot of messages asking me about how to tell if a girl likes you dislikes you or is gaming you...

IF a Girl Likes you

1.hold eye contact long
2.txt or call you all the time
3.laughs at all your jokes
4.touches you in anyway
5.wants to be around you all the time

basically its kind of a give-away if a female really likes you...the BIGGEST SIGN that she really like you is if she is always available to be around you...and gives you undivided attention..so if your lady-friend is doing any of these things she really LIKES YOU BRO it's all about attention with girls and if you feel your the center of her attention you can make your move dude..

If a Girl Dislikes you
1.she will not look you in the eye
2.she wont call or txt
3.she will talk about other guys around you
4.she never touches you
5.she's always busy

basically if she doesn't like you the girl wont want to be a around you...basically you dont exist...SO ALL YOU AFC GUYS STOP GUESSING THIS IS THE TRUTH....think about the last girl you really liked...and the girl you didnt....the girl you didnt like didnt even exist to you does she?! no? well there u have it!! lol....so if you have a lady friend who rarely calls back and pulls the busy role all the time...what she saying is...im too busy to talk to you..or be around you for that matter...so either stop calling or gauge her interest..

How to tell if your getting played (she's gaming you)

1.you caught her in a lie that she didnt tell you about
basically anything you had to figure out about her that she clearly said was not true and she tries to hide it..

2.Actions are different than words
If she text and calls you all the time but when you get around her she acts like she doesnt like you or she's always busy when your ready to meet up

3.she only comes around when she wants
she never comes when you invite her somewhere but she will always show up when she wants and when she feels like it...

4.her Personality changes when around different people
If she's all quiet when she's around you..but then u get her around other people and her personality changes completely

5.She's Sneaky and Secretive
IF at any point you feel she's not telling you something and it looks like she has something on her mind and your obviously not included..or for example she has a phone call and she goes in the other room to awnser..or if she's texting around you all the time and laughing and smiling basically..if you notice she has another part of her life that she just does not let you know about it then this is a big sign you might be getting played

now if your getting gamed it doesnt neccesarily mean she's not attracted to you...but she is trying to control you and get what she wants out of you..to me its actually worse than a girl disliking you...she's just down right cruel...

so if you see any of these signs hands down this is what it is...either a girl Likes you...doesnt like you...or she is playing you...just make sure you know which one...subconciously women expect a man to know this...whatever you do dont get played!! :kick:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon

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maaaaaaaaaaaaaaan

I wanna speak on this mannaz where u from b?
I gotta come back to this later when I'm focused

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Some girls don't like showing their cards, just like some guys don't like showing theirs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont think this is true for all cases. Im seeing a girl right now, she doesnt touch me(I always initiate it), doesnt really kiss me except my lips, etc.

I think there are girls like this(submissive). They want you to do everything sexually and they will always comply. Or maybe this girl doesnt like me...lol
 

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Badmannaz said:
4.touches you in anyway
Be careful on that one - ****-teases, big flirts, and overly friendly girls ramp up the kino far more than normal and do give the wrong signal. I've learnt that the hard way unfortunately.
 

Badmannaz

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ssj4halo said:
I dont think this is true for all cases. Im seeing a girl right now, she doesnt touch me(I always initiate it), doesnt really kiss me except my lips, etc.

I think there are girls like this(submissive). They want you to do everything sexually and they will always comply. Or maybe this girl doesnt like me...lol

lol yeah there are some out there that are shy..but like i said if she's not trying to make physical contact with you in anyway...then u are right she's not that interested in you right now..
 

Badmannaz

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Hughman said:
Be careful on that one - ****-teases, big flirts, and overly friendly girls ramp up the kino far more than normal and do give the wrong signal. I've learnt that the hard way unfortunately
well your from europe and i have and a run in from a south african girl who would touch when she talked to me...i also knew an African who would touch the back of my shoulder when he talked to me..in some cultures it is a sign of friendship...but what is a friend? a friend likes you....

girls who play you will exhibit all signs of a girl who likes you but you have to read again what i had to say about the girl who is playing you...girls who play give mixed signals thats y i put this thread up ....:rockon:
 

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So if you think a girl might be gaming you, what is the best way to handle it to see if it really is a game or not? Stop giving her attention?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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