"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been talking to this HB 8 for a bit now, and I know she's into me because she has told me before. But other than that, I knew she was interested because of the way she acts around me. Last I heard she had a BF but that was like 4 months ago, and I'd like to know without just straight up asking her. She hasn't told me that she has a BF, and she is very flirtatious with me.

If she doesn't have a BF then I'm going to ask her to our Homecoming dance.

Anyone know of a way?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just ask her to the homecoming dance anyways, youll have all your answer by her response. if she agrees to go, chances are she IS into you and DOESNT have a bf. if she says she cant, or something along those lines, well then you know.
 
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Theminatar said:
I've been talking to this HB 8 for a bit now, and I know she's into me because she has told me before. But other than that, I knew she was interested because of the way she acts around me. Last I heard she had a BF but that was like 4 months ago, and I'd like to know without just straight up asking her. She hasn't told me that she has a BF, and she is very flirtatious with me.

If she doesn't have a BF then I'm going to ask her to our Homecoming dance.

Anyone know of a way?
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Don't ask. Stop bullsh*tting and take it to the next level. 4 months is too long to be sitting in limbo and not knowing where you two stand. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're trying to be her MAIN GUY, then sit her down and be up front.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your_Royal_Flyness said:
Don't ask. Stop bullsh*tting and take it to the next level. 4 months is too long to be sitting in limbo and not knowing where you two stand. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're trying to be her MAIN GUY, then sit her down and be up front.
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I didn't talk to her/see her for 4 months cause I was with another girl. But now I'm done with her and am on to the next one. I found out she doesn't have a boyfriend so I'm going to ask her.

Oh and I'm 17.
 
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