"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to tell if she likes me

fiyahbong

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Hey fellas

Big Forum this one, great!
If i approach a girl and start talking to her, do i have to look :eek: at at her body language, her words and her tone to know if i should continue the interaction or just next her????

Any advice??

Thx
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you wana answer to that you're gona have to be alot more specific. You got an example?

Every situation is gona be different, there can be all sorts of factors, you can't just think body language, words and tone is going to be a 100% deciding factor
 

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Next her when you're being your natural self, but aren't having any fun.
 
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From what country are you residing? Ask for her phone number or to go to a function, and then you will get a glimpse of her interest!
 
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