“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to tell if a girl is single?

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Last night when at a club I sooo wanted to go talk to some girls but couldnt muster the balls just yet, but I am always wondering if they have a b/f, if the b/f is there and just not out danceing and I go up and talk to her I might feel like a ass.

It is a country bar so I am learning how to line dance, should be fun =)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No need in your mind they should all be single. Think this to yourself if shes got a bf why is she in a club for, shes fair game. Every woman you meet is single, keep that attitude
 

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And you should care because????? She'll let you know if she isn't interested.
 

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Well here's an idea...

How about..... ASK HER?:eek: :woo:

If you are thinking "how?" then let me give you a simple answer, to a simple question...

Go up to her, introduce urself, ask her a few questions, get talking, and then ask her if she's single or wateva.

Eg:

(After talking for a min or 2)

You: So where is your bf tonight

Her: I dont have one

You: A girl like you.. doesnt have a bf? You must hang around blind people WAY too much!

Her: (flattered/blushing, blah di blah) hehe, well i duno (give some excuse)

Then u start flirting, use some kino, get her number, and if u dont have the balls to pur her at the time, then call her up in the near future and make arrangements with her.

If she says she has a bf, then make sure that she knows that its her freidnship that ur after, tell her that she seemed like a kewl girl and that she has no need to worry because you just felt like talking to her and making a freind. After that u can, if u want, get her number, otherwise say goodbye and find your next "target' or whatever you want to call it;) ... Simple enough for you?
 

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Don't ask her if she's single.

Ask her to dance/on a date/for her number. If she has a man, she'll let you know then.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Don't ask her if she's single.

Ask her to dance/on a date/for her number. If she has a man, she'll let you know then.
Sometimes asking a girl if she is single is good, because u are showing her that you ARE interested in her, and not just for a chat.
 
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