How to tell between Games and Confusion

[itstough]

How can you tell when a woman is playing games to mess with your head and when she is doing it to push you away??? I was dealing with a woman who showed interest but then would play games. I posted something about her before and people said she may be confused? Now I am confused.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

All hot women play the game to a certain extent. They'll tell you they don't but its bullshiat!! It might not be anything major but they definitely play the game!! Don't let anyone tell you differently.



PIMP

 

[trevor2003]

Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
All hot women play the game to a certain extent. They'll tell you they don't but its bullshiat!! It might not be anything major but they definitely play the game!! Don't let anyone tell you differently.

true!

 

[itstough]

How about a woman who says """""If I ever got you alone and something got started between us, I wouldn't put an end to it.""" But when I tried something I got shot down................................
Or One who tells me how HER feet stink. One that touches you and flirts only when in front of other people.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Girls have the power over you because they can get your attention (that is why they dress slutty, even going to church) and hos love attention! This is why it is said that it is best that that you do not show too much interest in the begiining because then by her reactions you'll know if she is interested in you or is just pulling your chain for her amusement (especially so-called very attractive women)

Get her number immediately -- if she says no then get the hell out of there and quit being a pawn in her game-playing! Understand? You should be talking to her for only one reason and that is to pursue her romantically and not to be a subject of her mind games.

It is us guys that set ourselves up for this - because we are trying to please her and play along so that she will be nice later and then "she'll give me her number". Do not appease wh@res!

There some good women that are straightforward and direct -- these are the one worthy of the chase!

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
There some good women that are straightforward and direct -- these are the one worthy of the chase!

Don't you find that a bit boring? I love it when women play games... play along, have fun with it for a while... THEN be straightforward and direct when you are tired of the games and take what you want.

If her games are annoying you, just walk away. To each his own I guess.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Cremasta
Don't you find that a bit boring? I love it when women play games... play along, have fun with it for a while... THEN be straightforward and direct when you are tired of the games and take what you want.

If her games are annoying you, just walk away. To each his own I guess.

Buit remember who your audiennce is that you are speaking to - a very young and inexperienced male, who will surely follow the dictates of his penile desires before he would follow his mind. These male urges makes him mentally blind. They are in need of guidance at this age -- that is why they are here - no? To master the game. The women, at this young age, unfortunately hold the power in the relationship by her mere female physical attributes that men so dearly and natrally desire! Damn Testosterone makes us physically strong but then at the same time it makes us mentally and spiritually weak!

Go figure!











minds

 

[Wong Fei Hung]

Damn Testosterone makes us physically strong but then at the same time it makes us mentally and spiritually weak! PuertoRican_Lover, I cant agreed more! I am glad there are sites like this where we men of all ages can shared our experiences and find help.

All females play games of some degree. We men must lead if when the woman is playing games or in the stage of confusion. When I am attacked with games, I tried to cheat.

 

[NatureGuy]

This is a good post, and I like what Fuzz
had to say.
Anymore responses like his that address
the question of how you tell the difference
between games and pushing you away?

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Buit remember who your audiennce is that you are speaking to - a very young and inexperienced male, who will surely follow the dictates of his penile desires before he would follow his mind. These male urges makes him mentally blind. They are in need of guidance at this age -- that is why they are here - no? To master the game. The women, at this young age, unfortunately hold the power in the relationship by her mere female physical attributes that men so dearly and natrally desire! Damn Testosterone makes us physically strong but then at the same time it makes us mentally and spiritually weak!

Fair call PRL.

What did it for me was that I finally realised a few universal truths about women and the games they play:
1. They DO play games
2. I will never, ever figure out exactly why they play their games.
3. They are not always malicious (there are a few threads about how women use games to weed out substandard guys).

Now I just go with the flow and play them back, trying to figure out their games will just get you confused, just like itstough here. Strangely enough, I've met a lot of women who enjoy it when you throw their own game back at them, maybe you start to look like a challenge to them... just speculation though.

 

[NatureGuy]

1. They DO play games
2. I will never, ever figure out exactly why they play their games.
3. They are not always malicious (there are a few threads about how women use games to weed out substandard guys).

Good principles Cremasta, although I believe they're rarely meant to be
malicious.

'Throwing their own game back at them '
is an interesting concept. In effect, you're
saying: maybe I don't understand what
this means, but if I thow it back, I'll get
a meaningfull response (it's in her "language" in a sense)

 

[jester1x]

All women play games, but you want the one who will make it easy for you to win.

 

[NatureGuy]

Yes, and how do you tell when you've "won"?