"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HOW to tease and bust some balls ?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PapiChulo

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like this: http://ca.askmen.com/top_10/dating_top_ten_100/131_dating_list_a.html

Treat her like your guy friend.... you also have to be funny as well, otherwise it doesnt work. Dont go overboard with it, especially with the sarcasm. I am very sarcastic and tend to use a lot of irony, so it gets to people at times. Some women lack the sense of humor, others dont know what irony or sarcasm is and misread it, some are just insecure. Thats exactly where proper delivery and playfulness are a must. And also you cant tease all the time, throw a complement or two in there, be serious at times too.
 

Htienvu

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Think about when you're busting balls on friends/people you're not interested. It's the same principle, just have to stop thinking that you will offend her. Listen and find opportunity to turn what they say against them.
 
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