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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to talk to girls at the mall?

Rhino22

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Ive been single for a while with a few casual dates/sex here and there. Lately I have been interested in pursuing more women. The problem is I have a very small circle of friends. In fact, I feel like I don't connect with them anymore and want a WHOLE NEW set of friends but unsure how to go about that since I am 28 and not in school right now.

Anyway, I went to the mall today and saw a couple very beautiful women. One was working and one was a customer at Dillards. I'm just wondering what some good tips are for talking to these women in these scenarios, getting their numbers, etc. I know it can be done, Im just not sure how exactly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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real2 said:
That must've been the worst mall pickups I've seen in the last week...

He was literally chasing the girl down and railing her with questions. Score: C-
lol, it was meant for comedy anyway
 

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Crazy advice --> Just go up to them and talk and tell them that you should hangout sometime. Ask for the number.

If a girl is single and you don't look like frankenstein, then there is a high probability that she will give it to you. If she's taken, no big deal. It's all about catching a girl at the right time in her life where she is ready for a relationship, don't take it personal if she says no.
 

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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malls are for shopping not picking up chicks.

they are there to work not get hit on with guys that have no game.

they will just turn you down and tell you no

you need to have great game to pick up a chick that fast.

she wont give you her number in front of customers or her bosses anyway even if she was interested.

go to a club instead
 

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Ace_Magnamus said:
malls are for shopping not picking up chicks.

they are there to work not get hit on with guys that have no game.

they will just turn you down and tell you no

you need to have great game to pick up a chick that fast.

she wont give you her number in front of customers or her bosses anyway even if she was interested.

go to a club instead
and chicks are at the club not to meet guys but to have a good time with there girls and get attention/looks from guys.:rolleyes:

seriously, if you're gonna worry about what chicks think then you'll never get anywhere. Just go for it when you get an opportunity. If she says no the big deal
 

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Ace_Magnamus said:
go to a club instead
What good will that do? Women in clubs are there to have AFC's finance their nights on the town and to tease them while going home with their girlfriends, posting facebook & twitter updates, and teasing men.

Meeting women, for the average guy, is about timing and luck.
 

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BlackMack177 said:
and chicks are at the club not to meet guys but to have a good time with there girls and get attention/looks from guys.:rolleyes:

seriously, if you're gonna worry about what chicks think then you'll never get anywhere. Just go for it when you get an opportunity. If she says no the big deal
they do that to the guys that they have no interest in. they are also there to see if they can meet guys they like if there are any there. that happens you know if you ever been to one and got numbers before. there are also average chicks there too. they all dont stay home and hide under the covers because they are average. they go out too. not worried about what chicks think. it is usless to hit on a chick when she is trying to work or shop when a guy has no game. you have to have great game to succeed with that. at least at a club a guy like that has a better chance of meeting a girl and getting her number than trolling malls all day.



nismo-4 said:
What good will that do? Women in clubs are there to have AFC's finance their nights on the town and to tease them while going home with their girlfriends, posting facebook & twitter updates, and teasing men.

Meeting women, for the average guy, is about timing and luck.
maybe that's how it is for you but if you look half way decent with decent game your chances of getting numbers are way better than trying to bother a chick shopping or working behind the cash register when her manager and customers are around. average guys get average women. thats how it is in life. some guys wont accept that. they are not with hot chicks. if the guy is fat the chick will be fat. if the guy is average then she will be average. stop trying to so aim high and go for chicks in your range. if you are average you wont have a chance with a hot chick at a club. there are average chicks there you can find. your chances of meeting and getting her number are better at a club than trolling malls hoping to get a chick's number working in a department store.
 
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