"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to talk to girls already sitting with guys

eighteen123

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a DJ is supposed to talk to anyone and everyone he likes. What if the girls he likes are already sitting with another guy. How to approach the girl, as in a University campus situation? I`ll be starting a short course at a university and i would like to know how to approach girls this way.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerky Boi

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Umm, you might wanna pick a girl that isn't around another guy. He might be her boyfriend. You never know. Don't wanna end up in a situation you can't get out to of. A lot of guys are very over protective of their gf's. So the best alternative is to pick some girls out that are either just with their friends or (if you're lucky enough) alone.
 

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Talk to the guy first. THEN the girl.
 

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"Excuse me, gotta tell her something."

Then she gets up and walks away with you and you talk to her whatever and keep the other guy waiting. It doesn't matter who he is, her father, her boyfriend, you can talk to her if you want as long as you're not being too disrespectful. If he's just a wussy ***** friend of her's then it doesn't matter.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Nex
"Excuse me, gotta tell her something."

Then she gets up and walks away with you and you talk to her whatever and keep the other guy waiting. It doesn't matter who he is, her father, her boyfriend, you can talk to her if you want as long as you're not being too disrespectful. If he's just a wussy ***** friend of her's then it doesn't matter.

I'm with Nex on this one.

say to her:
"Come over here for a minute I have to tell you something"

Then start talking. This is the Alpha Male approach.

Like Vincent recently said it's "survival of the fittest" out here.
 

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Roll up in an expensive convertible, blasting Steppenwolf's "Magic Carpet Ride" while wearing sunglasses. All you gotta do then is signal the girl to get in.

OR!

You can follow the other advice the posters gave you. Both should work :cool:
 
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