How to talk to a gurl?duh

[NeRboiKun]

I have a problem....how can i talk to a girl if i dont know her and we just
first meet?I will say Hi then how to start the conversation at all..
can anyone tell what will i do?And the gurl are with her friends or parents
and we only meet 1 night.And how and what will be my first move?:nervous:

 

[dannowillbookem]

we're not psychic. we cant tell you this information. we dont know her, you, the situation, or anything. all we know is your a guy who wants a girl you dont know and your name is nerboikun and youre new.

your disturbingly hard to read question needs some clearing up, too: youve met her once before? shes with her parents? or is this the first time you'll be meeting her?

scroll down, click on "dj bible" and read through the must read! articles in each main section.

 

[Shapoopie]

Read both of the High School Bibles, The Golden Age of Grotesque and the DJ High School Bible, the link is the second to the top of the High School Forum. You may even want to read the DJ Bible, its link is at the bottom of the page.

This isn't like some lame-@ss how-to forum on picking up chicks or a video game forum
with cheat codes to win the game of life, sosuave's forums are more of a mental development/self improvement place. (That's how I generally view it anyways.)

 

[Phat]

Ask Simple Questions And talk about simple ****. Get to know her a little.
EX. "So whats your name?" , "what school do you go to?" , "How old are you?", "do you have a myspace? "

It just takes practice man. You may think that its hard to start a conversation with a girl at first. But its realllly easy once you actually start trying it.


You can tease her too. That always gets a convo going.

 

[Dandrufman]

First off, as was pointed out this forumn is about personal improvement, not about tricks and tactics. The goal of anyone serious about this is to get to a point where we are no longer afraid or incapable of anything humanly possible, not to get the girl.

Now, as to your question (or what i could understand... seriously, your grammar is attrocious) it sounds like you aren't using situational openers. Notice something about the place your at (is it a park, is it a store, is there someone doing something of note nearby) and comment on it. You should read all of the material linked under the DJ Bible at the bottom of the page, and read the HS Bible at the top of the HS forumn. Also, and I know this is obvious, but get out there and PRACTICE! Noone has ever gotten good at anything without practice.

 

[NeRboiKun]

wat if its better to write down some examples wat you will do? than letting the guy about what he did wrong in his thread

 

[defiancy]

umm eye contact and act natural? Talk to girls like you do to guys (guessing you have no fear of talking to other guys...just dont talk about anything stupid)

say hi and go from there

 

[NeRboiKun]

thats a nice reply nyahaha...say for example it would be better if i say?
Hi im spiderman(my name for example) can i be your friend?or can we introduce ourselfs? <<is that ok for a start

 

[BBX]

^no

 

[NeRboiKun]

why it would be better no?state your answer and your examples
whats the correct way if your in a situation to aproach a gurl

 

[BBX]

ok... well what I didn't like was the fact that you said you wanna be friends...thats a big no...You have to make your intentions clear. I'm not exactly shure if what the situiation is...do you know her?...any detail you may have might help.

 

[BBX]

nerobikun, if you have aim, im me at redmosquito447 so I can give you advice

 

[shydude]

Nerboikun pm me!! I can help u there uf u want! We might even practice... My screen name is shydude0825

 

[NeRboiKun]

hmm actualy i really dont know her i just meet her at that night then
i eye contact then smile then she actualy see i smile at her and i think
she got interested 70% but i cant actualy aproach her because i dont know what to say after all because that time its just for fun and i want to meet new faces or better chix it would be?so whats the correct way after all to aproach?im just a 15 year old boi trying to learn already...sorry for my grammars im from philippines nyahhaa

 

[BBX]

If she makes eye contact with you, go up to her and say, "I couldn't help but notice you starring at my ass", if you say it right, works every time and everything else will come naturally. If it fails, so what, you got experence from it and in the long run thats what counts

 

[NeRboiKun]

thats interesting but not that way for another example i want a polite not like a nice guy pick up line?hi i think you look familiar?i think your studying at C.I.T
she will actualy say ~no~ then i will tell my name then i will tell her where she is studying right know?or im juz wasting tym at her nyahaha

 

[BBX]

Your not wasting your time, it kind of depends where your going to approach her. If you've talked to her before, and you know her name, just say "hey (her name), we've met before, my name is (your name), by the way, do you go to C.I.T.?"

If she dosen't them ask her where she studies and just keep building off of that, but don't be afraid to use my are you staring at my ass tip because it really works..you have to try it

 

[NeRboiKun]

what if i dont know her name?it would be better `as if` i meet her then
act she is studyng at C.i.T then if she say no then i will tell my name tell her
again u look familar so where your realy school are?nyahah..then wat if shes not staring at my black ass wat wil i do?i think ill be right back im tired il take a nap for a while i hope you support my thread nyahhaha just keep on replying my thread

 

[BBX]

Wow thats some bad english but I understand what you ment and go with what you had in mind to say, but honestly, I think your making excuses because your too nervous to approach her. Any approach is better than no approach at all.

Your making excuses on not approaching her, I said that if she makes eye contact with you, go up to her and say "I couldn't help but notice you starring at my ass", she dosent have to stare at your ass for you to say that, just your eyes, its purpose is to be funny and make your intentions clear and you just need to learn from it. Hopefully she dosent speak english because your f*cked from the start if she does.

 

[defiancy]

eye contact without approaching is useless. when i was beginning my DJing a bit back the first thing I used on a nice HB 8 was eye contact. She was immediately interested, but I didn't make a move (yea i was that stupid). So the lesson is.......start learning how to approach girls! Go out more and talk with people. more confidence is always good :yes:


"thats a nice reply nyahaha...say for example it would be better if i say?
Hi im spiderman(my name for example) can i be your friend?or can we introduce ourselfs? <<is that ok for a start"

NOOOOOO this shows that you're insecure. Imagine a girl approaching you asking you...you wanna be friends? I really doubt you'll think shes normal or even worth talking to. One good way of imagining a situation is to imagine yourself in the girl's shoes. Women are different, but not extremely different so they're not even considered human. you'll be surprised how humans are alike...we hate weird people ahaha

so start approaching some girls, gain some more confidence, and try to talk to that girl right after eye contact. You can IM at tehsublime1 if you want