"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to take a girl away from another guy

snakeeyes

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So theres this girl I met last weekend at the club. Shes actually a neighbor of my friend Calvin and invited us to the club with her and her girl friends. Inside the club I danced with all her friends, but danced with her the most during that night. I was feeling her and Im sure she was feeling me because she kept coming back to dance with me eventhough she had other guy friends there. When we moved to another spot to dance she would grab my hand and lead me through the crowds of people inside the club. I also heard her tell one of her friends that I was "Fun" while she was dancing with me.

This is what I know about her. She just recently got out of a 7 year relationship and started dating this guy who shes known for awhile. The guy took her out on Valentines day and my friend Calvin got to meet him for the first time. He told me that he's tall about 6 feet, but not very good looking. He also said that from first impression he seems timid and have a lack of GAME. My friend said that in terms of looks I look way better than him. Calvin has a lot of great things to say about this girl. Shes graduating this semester and is a career driven type of girl who knows how to have fun and take care of her priorities. Shes seems like the type of girl for me. From talking to her I really liked her personality and the way she carries herself.

This Saturday night is her bday and we're going to the clubs to celebrate it. Im sure the guy shes talking to is going to be there too. So DJ's how should I snatch this girl away from this guy? Im sure I could get her friends cuz Calvin told me that a couple of them are into me, but I want her. Technically shes single so Im not going to feel guilty about taking her away from this guy. How should I step up my Game?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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christz

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nobody has replied to this thread for two reasons.

from what you said you got nothing with this girl

and the second reason, is nobody belives in attempting to take away another mans chick, i can see if the relaitonship was going through a tough time and has been off and on, then its cool. Thing is, the guy that your boy calvin is knocking on seems to have more game than you my friend.

cuz he's with her and your not.
 

So pimp its scary

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really, all you have to do is outgame her current bf.

Like the other guy says, you don't got it with this girl.
 

becker

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My friends, I didn't really buy into this before, but I slowly began to see this as I got more involved with a girl. The bottom line is that don't think for a second that if you could steal this girl away from her current guy that some other guy isn't going to just come along and do the exact same thing.

Some girls are loyal, and that's how they're wired. Some girls always have a lookout for the better deal. Not all girls are on the prowl, so don't buy into that idea. Basically, look for a single girl, and hopefullly she'll be a loyal one, and just stick with her. Any other move will only cause you headaches in the future.
 

Tha Realnezz

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AN "I don't care if you pick me or not" attitude is needed for prying a girl away from the zombie boyfreind.

Don't be direct with it cuz it will make her think you won't respect the situation or you'll cause trouble.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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johnny_chase

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Oh dudes, even if you CAN outgame her current boyfriend, he's the one laying the pipe down every so often to her. Learn from my past, even if the chick wants it so bad from you and she looks you in the eye and tells you and grabs your c0ck while she says it, you wont get her!

Why? Because of the B word. Boyfriend. To them it implies commitment, practice married. Cheating is a bad thing, even though it's not really cheating technically, but she wont break up with her bf to be with you. And if she wants to, she'll put off breaking up with him forever, untill she gets horny again and 'll go to him instead of you, because she dosenet want her number of sex partners to go up! Even if you do hook up with her briefly, unless it's absolutely 100% over with the other guy, she'll end up with him an dyou'll be left there with your **** swinging in the wind.

Just learn from my past, and fugheddabout it, plenty of other ladies out there
 
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