Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to suggest a threesome with a Bi girl

pyros

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Hi.

I'm kind of dating this chick which is a 6-6.5.
She's not very hot but she's super into me, and she's the funniest girl I've ever met. We've been together around 12 times, had sex, etc, and she's told me that she is bisexual. She's been with several girls and guys. She's 23.

The thing is she's told me also that she's had two serious relationships with guys in which 'she had permission to sleep with girls if she wanted to'

Now. I've asked if she's done a threesome and she's said that 'kind of'.
But that she could not see her boyfriend kissing another girl in front of her.


So, I wanted to suggest a threesome but, obviously we cannot become boyfriend and girlfriend because in this case she could not do it.



I do not want to be her boyfriend either, so, how should I suggest it?
she has super high IL and probably would like me to be her bf , but this cant happen or the threesome would vanish.
I'm afraid she's gonna bring the question: 'what are we?' soon.

Ideas?


Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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d!ckmojo

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Get another bi-sexual plate spinning, then introduce the two of them and try to get some sparks of attraction happening between them, then just go into a private setting all three of you and see what happens...
 

d!ckmojo

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Its best if it just seems like its happening spontaneously rather than as if you've meticulously planned it all (even though you will have).
 

seethehoop

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Id just ask but then I'm very sexually driven so any girl I'm with would not be surprised by it. I asked a girl I'm kinda seeing today she said no but i said if the chance comes up with someone else I'm gonna take it. She didn't like the idea but she said she wouldn't deny me wanting to fulfil the fantasy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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