LowPlainsDrifter
Senior Don Juan
My eyebrows arched up at that comment, too, and I'm not even you!STR8UP said:Why not?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My eyebrows arched up at that comment, too, and I'm not even you!STR8UP said:Why not?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
STR8UP said:Why not?
STR8UP said:Scam dad, huh?
We really need to iron this out once and for all because you seem to know a thing or two about business and investing, yet you still think Kiyosaki is a snake oil peddler?
Seriously, my experience has been that Kiyosaki's advice is congruent with the knowledge I have acquired over the years. I know there is no right or wrong way to wealth, but I am very curious as to why you would think that his way is wrong. Maybe we need another rich dad thread.
I think Kiyosaki himself has made the disclaimer that his materials are intended more to point people in the right direction than showing them step-by-step how to become wealthy.Egoist said:thats exactly the point about kiyosaki - anybody who knows business would find his advice very shallow and common sense.
i mean seriously, like i've said before, most of his advice can be boiled down to some very simple over-generalized stuff, like "income-generating assets are good" or "incorporating and writing sh!t off is good" that any first year business major, or even an uneducated street-smart guy with some business sense would already know.[/b]
And what is it again that you have against infomercial "midgets"?otherwise his books are just a lot of self-help fluff. He is maybe half a notch above those late night infomercial midgets. But hey, if it really motivated you and helped you, great.
Never heard of it, but I will be on the lookout for it.on a more serious note, str8up, look up a book called "confessions of a real estate entrepreneur" - its actually one of very few books of this genre that I think are great and will appeal to anyone from a high-school kid to an MBA - anyway, read it, you'll like it, especially since you seem to be transitioning to the commercial RE level (like you should be)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i'm talking about those actual midget brothers with their wealth infomercial. The dudes are like 3'0 but such pimps with their mansions and sh!t :rockon:STR8UP said:And what is it again that you have against infomercial "midgets"?
are you saying infomercials are the only source about wealth-building information? DUUUUUUUDE...STR8UP said:Where should someone seek specific information about wealth building, if the infomercial materials are worthless?
Of course not. But I have:Egoist said:are you saying infomercials are the only source about wealth-building information? DUUUUUUUDE...
STR8UP said:Of course not. But I have:
- Spent a couple of years in college
- Read coutless books on the subject
- Heard what financial planners have to say
- Watched Suze Orman a couple of times
and I can tell you that none of the above comes close to providing the kind of creative nuts and bolts information that is required to build wealth quickly.
Watching Suze Orman is ESPECIALLY painful. Wanna talk about basic information.....jeez....it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that if you live your entire life spending more than you make you aren't gonna have much in the end. Yet this is what the general public is exposed to on a daily basis. Fine for living the hard working, penny pincher lifestyle, but who wants to live like that?
Kiyosaki doesn't give anyone step by step advice on how to become wealthy, but at least he illustrates what it is that separates the rich from the poor. Suze Orman, Dave Ramsey, financial planners, accountants, Money magazine.....THESE are the "legitimate" sources for information about money that most people are exposed to. Every single one of them will tell you pretty much the same thing, "Work hard, save money, invest in mutual funds, and retire below your means when you are old". Not one of these sources will teach you anything about how to go about retiring young and rich.
If anyone is content to follow the rest of the sheep for the next 30-40 years, be my guest. I would rather find a way to make things happen while I am still young enough to enjoy it.
That's absolutely true. If you have 'love for the GAME' like somebody put it youre not gonna want to retire. Look at Donald Trump or whoeva, they have love for the game, but dont consider retiring because they like what they do and it gives them a sense of enjoyment.The man who loves what he does doesn't work a day in his life.
'Nuff said.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.