"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I was going to meet this girl today and she just sends me a text saying she most likely won't be able to meet but if she can she will call me, how do you respond to that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it is unfair for you to have your nuts in her hands, sitting on the edge of your seat wasting your time wondering if she will be available. she is probably too much in control.

that is bs dude, so wait.... if she can't hang out, she WON'T call you and will leave you hanging even more? either say today doesn't work out after all and reschedule, or wait for her to come to you. just don't let her walk all over you. you don't want to be the guy that says something like "ok, thats fine. whenever you are ready for me... i'm your b!tch".
 
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Well I sent her back a text saying "Give me a break. YOu have the next 5 hours to finish and even if you don't you could sure use a break by then."

I guess it worked because about half an hour later she sent me a text saying "she will hurry up and finish and will be there."
 
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Sam Adams said:
Well I sent her back a text saying "Give me a break. YOu have the next 5 hours to finish and even if you don't you could sure use a break by then."

I guess it worked because about half an hour later she sent me a text saying "she will hurry up and finish and will be there."
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Let us know if she comes over. Because I thought you failed with your reply. You should have said "ok, whatever" or something like you didn't care.
 
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