"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to Stop Razor Bumps.

Itiswhatitis

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I'm a young black male by the way,and I didn't always have razor bumps and haven't gained any more facial hair than normal so I'm not sure why I'm gettin it now. But anybody know shaving techniques to prevent razor bumps?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Porky

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Shave directly before showering (I use an automatic razor, last time I used shaving cream my face hated it) and then wash your face thouroughly with warm water.

Either that or put on johnson and johnson anti-bacterial cream after shaving. I recommend the shower tip.
 

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I shave with a shick dual blade straight after a shower... the hair is at its weakest then, and less likely to get irritated. Haven't had any problems.
 

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Warm up your skin and open your pores with warm water, ie, showering before you shave.

Since you're black (me too), I'm going to assume your hair is thick and curly. If that's the case, then people with that type of hair tend develop PFB easier. Use bump stopper or similar product afterwards to prevent razor bumps.

You can also try an electric razor, or using the lowest setting on a pair of hair clippers that don't go *totally bald*, but close enough. That's what gets the job done for me. Good luck.
 
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