"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how to steal someone's girlfriend?

SXS

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Hi. I am new to these forums, and I have a question.

I live in Brazil, and here there are a lot of beaultiful women. The big problem is that if you start talking to a girl who is over, well... 15, they are all taken or already have something going on, and that when they doenst have a ring in their finger. So I came to the conclusion that to get good girls you have to take them from someone. The problem is that is hard to get them to leave their boyfriends, even if you do "get in", so to speak. Since I dont want to be badmouthed around as that guy who keeps kissing or going out with a girl who is taken, how do I counter this ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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It is a lot easier to find one who does not have a boyfriend.

So, either go do that, or live the rest of your live alone.
 

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Or you could get a sex change and hit on the men, cuz lots of men these days apparently will skrew anything on two legs!
 

SXS

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Or you could get a sex change and hit on the men, cuz lots of men these days apparently will skrew anything on two legs!
Ew. I prefer to keep going with the girls with boyfriend...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ducaro said:
Or you could get a sex change and hit on the men, cuz lots of men these days apparently will skrew anything on two legs!
YOU NASTY F**K!!!

Finding an attractive girl without a boyfriend is like a needle in a haystack. I'd have people ask around for you.
 

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Dont worry. Some girls have BFs that are losers. They rather be with someone than be alone. It doesnt ever mean they like their BF. If you are better than their bf you can steal.

A fair warning though: Just dont steal a girl from a mafia don or gangbanger. Its not worth your life.
 

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zack77766 said:
A fair warning though: Just dont steal a girl from a mafia don or gangbanger. Its not worth your life.
Or an American Gladiator!!! LOL

Girls just wanna say they're taken and they don't know what they're missing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JLW

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Treat others how you would like to be treated.

In other words, go find single girls. They're out there.
 

X-ecution

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Gangster Of Love said:
It is a lot easier to find one who does not have a boyfriend.

So, either go do that, or live the rest of your live alone.

pretty much
 

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SXS said:
Hi. I am new to these forums, and I have a question.

[hot girls] already have something going on
All girls already have "something" going on. Personally, experiment, see what works and you'll find your groove.
 

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Find A Single Girl U Fvckin Loser

Stop Making Excuses For Yourself
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheNastyAfrican

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It's really not that hard, you just have to find one who's unhappy in her situation, it's all downhill from there. HOWEVER I don't recommend this from personal experience but it's your call.
 

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Just show a bunch of them a good time, they'll soon start to like you more than their BFs. What the BF lacks(humour for example) you can emphasize on. They'll start to see what their missing and lose interest in their BF.

But I personally, would just try to look for a girl thats single. Ruining some other guy's relationship isn't that great...unless the girl is super hot/great personality.


But I also find it easier to get girls with BFs. I dunno why, maybe they want what they can't get??
 

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From my own experience, the steal is something that you should only pull off if you can kick the borefriends ass. Other than that, I wouldn't recommend it, unless you're packing or know jiu jitsu.
 

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id put a bullet in your brain if u ever tried to steal my girl

and im one of the nice ones
 
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