"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to start sexting girls?

AttackFormation

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The only time I've sexted I didn't have to ask for pictures, she just sent them to entice me. With this girl though who I haven't "known" for even a week we've sent each other a couple of pictures taken in the moment but they're not sexual, she lives on another continent so I can't take her out. I don't know whether she's a b!tch or not yet but she doesn't seem dumb.

So she texted me at night because she couldn't sleep. I sent her a pic of me looking "peaceful" in bed and she seemed to understand that I actually wanted her to send a pic of herself because she reciprocated immediately. She covered her eyes on the first picture she sent me though, because of what I coaxed out of her was that she didn't like being vulnerable (she had "super asian eyes when she was sleepy"), but I talked her through to giving me one when she's showing her eyes. I said she looked pretty cute for being sleepy and she said that's good because she's been feeling down about her looks lately. The way I see it, here's my opportunity to pick the road of being a beta supplicant or the alpha she looks up to for validation and I certainly want to be the latter. It's just I'm not sure how to do that over just texting when we're so far apart.

How would you do this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's very hard to form a solid long distance relationship with someone you've never even met before.
 

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@Mike

Thanks for the idea bro. I'll see what I can do the next time she messages me, hopefully when she's lying in bed ;)

@Payaso

Yep, but the kind of girl I want is in such short supply here that I have to look overseas or at least in another country. I figure I don't want anyone here that I know of anyway so why not go for it while I'm trying to find girls here, and if I don't then I've brewed this up all along.
 

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There's Nothing Alpha About this Thread

AttackFormation said:
The way I see it, here's my opportunity to pick the road of being a beta supplicant or the alpha she looks up to for validation and I certainly want to be the latter. It's just I'm not sure how to do that over just texting when we're so far apart.
Dude, it's would be bad enough if she was an hour away from you, but you're on this site asking how to get naked pics of a chick that isn't on the same continent as you are. Really, bruh? Why aren't you trying to holla at the chicks in your neighborhood?

You're a simp dude and you're nothing more than a omega male orbitor in her legion of loyal fans. This is some sad sh*t, on a internet message board that's designed for the purpose of gaining the skills and confidence of to meet women in person, but you're seeking advice in regards to getting a chick that isn't in the same part of world as you are to send you some naked pictures to wack off too. Are you serious?

AttackFormation said:
How would you do this?
Rex wouldn't, he'd watch pornhub.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I told you, it's because I don't want the girls I've found here so far and the ones I do want physically have been taken/f*cked in the head damaged goods. I already have my plates set up so why wouldn't I do this? it's not like I'm investing in her. Summertime is starting for real now which means it's going to be hunting season, I'm not some dumbass who won't do anything locally because I'm texting a girl on another continent if that's what you're thinking. It's just that going out here for me is like fishing in the dead sea.
 
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