TheFixer14
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One night I randomly decided to think about the type of women who I'd like to be around the most from mostly a personality standpoint, but also a physical one too. I came up with this.
The hot mean party girl: I am a laid back guy who doesn't really like to go out to bars and clubs. Though I don't mind a house party every now and then. I like these types of girls because they are so different from me. They force me to do certain things. And I like it when a woman teases me the right way.
Somewhat quirky thick blonde women: Think Greta Grewig. I like women like this because they aren't scared to be themselves. Their bodies aren't model perfect and they own it. The ones who really know how to do this are more sexier than women who wear a size 2 IMO. They are intelligent in their own right and some are outwardly sexual.
Gothic women (reluctantly): Why reluctantly? Because some gothic women are bitches. But I'm a little gothic myself and gothic women turn me on a **** ton. These might be the most sexual women out there. They use their darkness and turn it into something beautiful.
Punk/skater chicks: I like these type of women. They show off their masculine side without losing the femininity. They are usually pretty laid back and cool. Even though I live in L.A I don't really meet too many women like this nowadays.
I'm sure that there are other types of women that I like. But these are the three types that turn me on the most.
Obviously I could meet a hot mean party girl at a club and there is this gothic club near me that I've been to a few times and meet some attractive gothic women. Somewhat quirky thick blonde women and punk/skater chicks are a little harder to find.
But here is the thing: I am tired of bars and clubs. I am tired of having to yell at the top of my lungs. I am tired of how these venues carter to women.
Meetup.com isn't exactly the best place to meet women. There's this one meetup that I started going to on Halloween that used to have a lot of women show up. But lately it's been a dud.
I've been basically in true monk mode (no jerking off) this week and it's been making me extra horny as you could imagine. I remember why I used to like having a girlfriend: it made me feel normal. At this point I just want to basically have a **** buddy.
But I am so focused on my career and work at the moment that I honestly haven't really thought about all of this in a bit. But I just got a great day job, I am getting some cool acting opportunities, and a lot of people are showing interest in a script that I wrote so now I am starting to watch to inch back up on that pyramid of needs.
I hate this physiological need to have sex with women. Though it's good for sexual transmutation, it can get annoying.
So, how do I start meeting women that are right for me? A big thing that I used to do was waste time with women who weren't good for me. Enough of that. I want to be with women who I have a true emotional connection with on some level. Of course if I get into a situation when a hot woman who I am not that into is very receptive, I will have a ONS. I suppose that's just part of the human condition.
But I don't like the hits that my self esteem takes when I fvck or date women who aren't right for me. It's gotten real old.
The hot mean party girl: I am a laid back guy who doesn't really like to go out to bars and clubs. Though I don't mind a house party every now and then. I like these types of girls because they are so different from me. They force me to do certain things. And I like it when a woman teases me the right way.
Somewhat quirky thick blonde women: Think Greta Grewig. I like women like this because they aren't scared to be themselves. Their bodies aren't model perfect and they own it. The ones who really know how to do this are more sexier than women who wear a size 2 IMO. They are intelligent in their own right and some are outwardly sexual.
Gothic women (reluctantly): Why reluctantly? Because some gothic women are bitches. But I'm a little gothic myself and gothic women turn me on a **** ton. These might be the most sexual women out there. They use their darkness and turn it into something beautiful.
Punk/skater chicks: I like these type of women. They show off their masculine side without losing the femininity. They are usually pretty laid back and cool. Even though I live in L.A I don't really meet too many women like this nowadays.
I'm sure that there are other types of women that I like. But these are the three types that turn me on the most.
Obviously I could meet a hot mean party girl at a club and there is this gothic club near me that I've been to a few times and meet some attractive gothic women. Somewhat quirky thick blonde women and punk/skater chicks are a little harder to find.
But here is the thing: I am tired of bars and clubs. I am tired of having to yell at the top of my lungs. I am tired of how these venues carter to women.
Meetup.com isn't exactly the best place to meet women. There's this one meetup that I started going to on Halloween that used to have a lot of women show up. But lately it's been a dud.
I've been basically in true monk mode (no jerking off) this week and it's been making me extra horny as you could imagine. I remember why I used to like having a girlfriend: it made me feel normal. At this point I just want to basically have a **** buddy.
But I am so focused on my career and work at the moment that I honestly haven't really thought about all of this in a bit. But I just got a great day job, I am getting some cool acting opportunities, and a lot of people are showing interest in a script that I wrote so now I am starting to watch to inch back up on that pyramid of needs.
I hate this physiological need to have sex with women. Though it's good for sexual transmutation, it can get annoying.
So, how do I start meeting women that are right for me? A big thing that I used to do was waste time with women who weren't good for me. Enough of that. I want to be with women who I have a true emotional connection with on some level. Of course if I get into a situation when a hot woman who I am not that into is very receptive, I will have a ONS. I suppose that's just part of the human condition.
But I don't like the hits that my self esteem takes when I fvck or date women who aren't right for me. It's gotten real old.