There's a girl I'm attracted to in one of my classes. I think she might be into me, but I think she might be married. She has a silver ring on her middle finger. Is this a wedding ring? I thought that wedding rings were traditionally worn on the finger next to the pinkie, but I could be wrong. How can I find out without actually asking?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How To Spot A Wedding Ring
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