"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to say you don't care?

Eph

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I just realized today I don't care about all (or at least most) of the problems women have. I hate it when they try to talk to me about it, especially if it is about a guy. Some of it is just completely ridiculous. How would you let someone know you don't care/don't want to talk with them about their problems without being a complete d!ck about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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R.C

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You're 15. Girls that age will ***** about everything and anything simply because it gives them the illusion that they are 'interesting' because they have 'problems'.

Pretend to be interested. Even if you hate every moment of it , it's all the better. Train yourself in being a good listener ,specially with the things you hate. It will make it way easier for other things.
 

Darth

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Girl: And then my boyfriend broke up with me, and he did it over text, he didn't even call, blah blah blah blah
Darth: So, what's for lunch? I'm pretty hungry. How bout you? You hungry?
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Girl: And I was standing in line for literally like hours. OMG! I was like so hungry and blah blah blah blah
Darth: Wait a second.
Girl: Hmm?
Darth: Gotta use the bathroom.
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Girl: I'm so tired. I've been walking all day! I need to sit down. Whine whine whine whine whine
Darth: Almost there:)
 

Purefilth

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just say in a singsong voice "bored now!" and change the subject. Or go do something fun.:D

You dont want to be that guy - you know, the "good friend".
Change the subject to something fun, or something thats actually worth talking about. like COD or HALO4 :D
 
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