I just realized today I don't care about all (or at least most) of the problems women have. I hate it when they try to talk to me about it, especially if it is about a guy. Some of it is just completely ridiculous. How would you let someone know you don't care/don't want to talk with them about their problems without being a complete d!ck about it?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to say you don't care?
- Thread starter Eph
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You're 15. Girls that age will ***** about everything and anything simply because it gives them the illusion that they are 'interesting' because they have 'problems'.
Pretend to be interested. Even if you hate every moment of it , it's all the better. Train yourself in being a good listener ,specially with the things you hate. It will make it way easier for other things.
Pretend to be interested. Even if you hate every moment of it , it's all the better. Train yourself in being a good listener ,specially with the things you hate. It will make it way easier for other things.
Girl: And then my boyfriend broke up with me, and he did it over text, he didn't even call, blah blah blah blah
Darth: So, what's for lunch? I'm pretty hungry. How bout you? You hungry?
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Girl: And I was standing in line for literally like hours. OMG! I was like so hungry and blah blah blah blah
Darth: Wait a second.
Girl: Hmm?
Darth: Gotta use the bathroom.
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Girl: I'm so tired. I've been walking all day! I need to sit down. Whine whine whine whine whine
Darth: Almost there
Darth: So, what's for lunch? I'm pretty hungry. How bout you? You hungry?
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Girl: And I was standing in line for literally like hours. OMG! I was like so hungry and blah blah blah blah
Darth: Wait a second.
Girl: Hmm?
Darth: Gotta use the bathroom.
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Girl: I'm so tired. I've been walking all day! I need to sit down. Whine whine whine whine whine
Darth: Almost there
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
just say in a singsong voice "bored now!" and change the subject. Or go do something fun.
You dont want to be that guy - you know, the "good friend".
Change the subject to something fun, or something thats actually worth talking about. like COD or HALO4
You dont want to be that guy - you know, the "good friend".
Change the subject to something fun, or something thats actually worth talking about. like COD or HALO4