How to sarge without looking suspicious?

[Deicide]

Hello, how do I sarge without looking suspicious?
I went to a small town today, and of course,having bronze spiked hair like me is going to make you stand out. I went to a grocery store, and I was just walking around the store saying Hi to any attractive women I saw. A worker came up to me and said "Sir, if you need any help, just let me know". I know that trick because I work in retail. He thought I was stealing. No, I don't do that, I'm just trying to increase my PU game despite being in a small town where no one does that stuff. I didn't say that though. haha I feel weird loitering in stores for the sake of PU, it makes me uneasy, and I feel like people may want to kick me out of stores for this. It's a lack of inner game yes, but I want to do PU without everyone noticing and talking about it. That, and it's always tough finding women my age to approach here. It's almost always mature women that are probably married or young single mothers. Maybe, I should go to a bigger city and do it? Also, I do day-game almost always, I'm rarely ever at bars and clubs, though I ahould give those a go too. Any help is appreciated. I'm sure a lot of you guys went through the same stuff.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I feel weird loitering in stores for the sake of PU


Good, because it's a creepy weirdo thing to be doing. Not everyone on here will agree with me on that, but I think every woman I've ever known would. Obviously, when you see an attractive girl, go and talk to her, but don't hit on multiple women at the same place. As soon as a girl gets any idea that's what you're doing, it's over. Women want to feel special. Always make them think that you hardly ever approach girls. Women want to delude themselves with romantic comedy love fantasies, so let them. It makes everything much easier.

 

[Deicide]

I feel weird loitering in stores for the sake of PU


Good, because it's a creepy weirdo thing to be doing. Not everyone on here will agree with me on that, but I think every woman I've ever known would. Obviously, when you see an attractive girl, go and talk to her, but don't hit on multiple women at the same place. As soon as a girl gets any idea that's what you're doing, it's over. Women want to feel special. Always make them think that you hardly ever approach girls. Women want to delude themselves with romantic comedy love fantasies, so let them. It makes everything much easier.

Good idea, that will make me feel a lot easier about trying PU in public places. It's a good thing that I only approached one girl at the restaraunt today. haha "You get one approach per location", that makes sense. I do want to do some mall sarging sometime soon though, I did it a couple weeks back on a small scale, but I'd like to do a ton of approaches at malls in different stores. I'd like to number close women at my retail job too, but I feel weird following through on that action unless I'm getting some heavy IOI's, and that never happens. I may get in trouble for doing PU there.

 

[Borknagar]

Dude it's ok to approach one women, with a game plan at whatever place you're at but don't make it the reason you're there. Hanging out at a grocery store to hit on women will for sure make you seem like a creey weirdo! Like for example, if you're at a coffee shop to get a coffee and use your comp or whatever reason you're there, then you can approach, if you're going to the gas station for gas and a pack of smokes and a pop and see someone ya like, give a good reason to approach. Don't be too aggressive, but I think ya know what I mean. Day game isn't like night game. At a club or bar, it's different, and it's also easier and more entertaining so I'd try that if I were you, plus easier to get makeouts and same night lays. a number close means nothing, day or night. in my opinion the only real close is a f-close. During the day, thats harder, you can get the # and go for the f-close when you ask them out for drinks!

 

[mustfirstregister]

Being creepy is the next level to become a successful pua. If u can't reach this level you are not out of your comfort zone.

 

[Deicide]

Being creepy is the next level to become a successful pua. If u can't reach this level you are not out of your comfort zone.

I thought this myself, especially in the beginning. If I have to go through a phase of being creepy and having a bad reputation at college to become a PUA, so be it. I do plan on fulfilling the 10 rejections in one week exercise via the DJ Boot Camp the first week of college though. Regardless of how that goes, that should help me out a lot trying to do that. Also, I haven't been to bars and nightclubs because I don't drink alcohol and I can't dance well. But, I will give bars and nightclubs a chance, even though a party atmosphere has made me very nervous in the past. I'm going to get over that feeling. This is all about slashing through comfort zones and unwritten cultural rules.

 

[scribblec]

you know what i beleive you will succeed in this PU game because uve taken more steps in trying to improve urself then 90 percent of the people on this board,

uve taken steps to improve your appearence your trying to sarge i mean if you just keep at it change ur clothes to more jeans/shirt style and shave ur head and grow a box beard then i think u can be quite successful

 

[RSanders219]

Personally, I just try to work my game at whatever place I have to go for during that day. I won't say specifically "I'm going to go to the grocery store to pick up women".. I'll go to the grocery store to do food shopping, and if I see a HB I will approach. Know what I mean? I go out a lot too though, so that might have something to do with it. If I didn't go out so much doing errands or hanging with friends, I probably would do the same.

 

[Demonpenz]

feel your pain, you read all day approach approach approach and when you do you get the vibe that you may get kicked out. Live your life then approach, don't appoach then learn to live