This is kind of a field report/a set. I went out with my friends tonight and we went to a bar. Behold, there were MY friends, plus some chicks I had never met. The set included 4 women, with 2-3 guys. So we were all sitting together, and I opened up the females with an opinion opener. I used the jealous girlfriend opener, and it worked, but the girls kind of split off on their own discussions. Then I isolated my target with "the cube". I got her at a table with just me, and I did "the cube" on her. It worked great and she was really intrigued. Then we went back to the group. I lost the set after that. It was just SO much talk going around the table I couldn't control the set.
So later on, a new target entered and I was able to isolate her. The main set was doing something else, so I opened on her and used a neg, and then proceeded to do the five question game, which I learned from neil strauss, and she LOVED it. But after that, I lost the set again. She actually used the same game on my best friend, who actually kinda butted in, because she loved the trick so much. Anyways, I lost her and I was kind of baffled. It's really hard to control a big set, much more when the women you are gaming know the people within your set (aka: your friends, and their friends). Any suggestions?
So later on, a new target entered and I was able to isolate her. The main set was doing something else, so I opened on her and used a neg, and then proceeded to do the five question game, which I learned from neil strauss, and she LOVED it. But after that, I lost the set again. She actually used the same game on my best friend, who actually kinda butted in, because she loved the trick so much. Anyways, I lost her and I was kind of baffled. It's really hard to control a big set, much more when the women you are gaming know the people within your set (aka: your friends, and their friends). Any suggestions?