"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So i met some girl at a bar about 2 weeks ago, heavy kino and flirting all night, ended up calling her a couple days later and said I would call when she was off work to hang out.

Didn't speak to her since and I am looking for something to do tonite so I text her "wasup sexy" . She replies "whos this"

What's a good c+f response that will get her intrigued?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your best bet is not to let her know that you don't have anything to do tonight. You're always busy as far as she knows. You're so busy that you can't make last minute plans whether you're busy or not.
 
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Mavrick said:
Your best bet is not to let her know that you don't have anything to do tonight. You're always busy as far as she knows. You're so busy that you can't make last minute plans whether you're busy or not.
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I figure that but I mean something more with how to get her attention. She probably doesn't member me as she seemed like the type that gets round. Not bad looking at all though, so I'm just lookin for a bootycall.
 
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Hurry with this one. She just text me again saying "well???"

I don't wanna say i'm just some dude she met at a bar two weeks ago, that sounds desperate, give me something I can use.
 
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Now this girl just called!!! Come on ppl give me something. I'm gonna reply back and just say I wasn't by my fone then but I need to know what I should say....................
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Called and told her I was on the fone and she was like O well im goin out now so call me later. Nexted.
 
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