"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So i met some girl at a bar about 2 weeks ago, heavy kino and flirting all night, ended up calling her a couple days later and said I would call when she was off work to hang out.

Didn't speak to her since and I am looking for something to do tonite so I text her "wasup sexy" . She replies "whos this"

What's a good c+f response that will get her intrigued?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your best bet is not to let her know that you don't have anything to do tonight. You're always busy as far as she knows. You're so busy that you can't make last minute plans whether you're busy or not.
 
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Mavrick said:
Your best bet is not to let her know that you don't have anything to do tonight. You're always busy as far as she knows. You're so busy that you can't make last minute plans whether you're busy or not.
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I figure that but I mean something more with how to get her attention. She probably doesn't member me as she seemed like the type that gets round. Not bad looking at all though, so I'm just lookin for a bootycall.
 
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Hurry with this one. She just text me again saying "well???"

I don't wanna say i'm just some dude she met at a bar two weeks ago, that sounds desperate, give me something I can use.
 
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Now this girl just called!!! Come on ppl give me something. I'm gonna reply back and just say I wasn't by my fone then but I need to know what I should say....................
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Called and told her I was on the fone and she was like O well im goin out now so call me later. Nexted.
 
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