"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to respond when girl talks about other guys?

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How should I respond when a girl, whether I'm interested in her or not, talks about other guys. Like her problems with an ex? Would it be bad just to say, "you should talk to a girl about this"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if she talks about an ex, yawn or change the subject. if she talks about other guys she has no serious dealings with, joke about it or ignore it and change the subject.
 
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You can adress it with maybe a comment or two but then switch to a different comment that will alter her mood.Then instead of talking about past problems,you guys can talk about future plans.

Something quick like "Yeah I agree,I would have never done something like that" then just move on
 
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