"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to respond to women's challenge
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Try to be more clear.
Anyway never apologize or retreat, not only it wont work but it would make you feel like a cvnt right after.
Never negotiate your opinion or beliefs to get a woman approval, its not worth it and most of all its a turn off for them.
that's it man, you got the point!Who Dares Win said:
i always get angry when they challenge/play with my sexuality you know....something like "haha so you like to use pink shirts haha thats so gay"....not that i use pink shirts lol
but i get pissed man and i know that getting pissed is not the best answer
i'd like to know what you guys do to answer to **** like that
and i'd like a answer to put them "in line" without being rude but making her feel like **** lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.