"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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How to respond to, "that girl was checking out (you)"

ScrewIt

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I was at the pool hall today playing with a couple friends. And during one of my games a girl was checking me out through the window, i didnt know. and my friend went "wow that blond was checking out screwit". then they were talking about my looks and charisma.

and me as usual i try to humble about it and just go "nah" "look my hairs messed up" "wtf are you talking about".

maybe i shouldve just responded by saying"hell yea" or soemthijng similar

How would you respond?
 

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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johnny_chase

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"what, did you think she was checkin YOU out?"

"or course she was, she has good taste"

"what else could she possibly be looking at?"

"yes, and i'm going to go talk to her and get her number"

"no, she just wants to have wild animal sex with me"

"I AM A GOD! OF COURSE SHE WAS! BOW DOWN BEFORE ME, BRING ME 100 RIPE VIRGINS!"

that should be enough, eh?
 
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