"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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toddC

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Okay, well I'm not a great conversationalist but I'm not horrible but something this guy and girl said to me at work, I HAD NO IDEA OF HOW TO RESPOND. So I'm sitting there getting trained on the comptuer and there is a girl and a guy (i know the guy from school) sitting at the break table talking. They then asked mea fe w questions like if i like the job so far etc etc etc. Then out of nowhere both of them were like yea we were at the podeium and everyones like "whos the new guy with the blond spiked ahr (me), hes hot" and then the guy wasl ike yea dude your a wanted man here!

Like I was in shock and it took me 5 seconds to make me sonud like a conceited ******* I don't member what i said but it was quite dumb lol...what are some witty responses that not only cover this example but other ones too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You: "I know... but im sorry, you have to get in line"
 

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i think thats one of those things you just dont respond to haha
 

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This is kind of off subject, but if you hear a women tell you that you're hot, a great response is "What are you gonna do about it?" It works well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got hit on by a group of 8th graders at my confirmation thing. they all told me i'm hott as hell. i jsut kinda...looked away n said thanks.
if shes hott, I've always wanted to say "too abd you're not, or else we coulda hokked up."
but i dunno how thta would go over lol. and its never popped in my head at the right time.
 

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Yeah, if a girl or girls say you're hot, I tend to use some of these:

A) Just because you say I'm hot, doesn't mean you can take me home. You need to try harder! (I'm guessing that has to do with being a challenge, but I never really paid attention, just said it)

B) Thanks, so are you. (Kind of a Kiss-Ass reply, but I use it when the girl(s) say "You're hot" regarding my temperature. Borrowed this from Fantastic 4 hahaha!)

C) ...What, you want me to say that YOU'RE hot now? I don't know... (with a grin)


blah blah blah. Just be creative, but I'd think twice before saying something when a guy says that I'm hot. I'm not homophobic, but it would seem pretty weird if that happened.
 

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nono, he never said he thinks I was hot, he said he over heard the girls at the podeium saying the blonde-spikey haired kid washot. I would feel kinda weird if hes like yea ur hot lol
 

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simply smile and act like its no big deal.... like it happens all the time !!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah I actually get that kind of often. As a matter of fact, one of the first times I was with my current gf when we had just met, her friend was like "oh, hey, so you are supposed to show me the hottest guy in the world right?" and I was like wtf, I don't like this idea I'm supposed 2 be here w/her, there's no other guys involved. Then all of the sudden she's like "yup here he is! isn't he gorgeous?" as she pointed to me :D But i've found that if they really think that, then a ****y remark is just gonna make you an assh*le if they don't kno you well. Keeping it casual and confident is the way to go, unless you can make a well placed remark that's smooth but not TOO ****y, which can also be done with good results.
 
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