"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how to respond to her text (Help)

escaleraroyal

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Me: It was nice meeting you. How are you today?
She: I feel not so good today cuz I drank last night...I hope you have a good night.


I dont know how to responde to her text. Please help me
Should I text back with a tease or should I show compassion and reasssure her??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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My w0manese translator says: "I have really low interest in you right now. I went out drinking with my girlfriends last night and fvcked some random guy. Now I'm waking up with a hangover and have buyers remorse. You are the least of my concerns right now. Please stop talking to me. Good night."

-Scars
 

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Your problem is deeper, you sent her a lame-@ss pvssy text to start with.

Read up on how to text a girl, plenty of info on this site and others like it.

You have to be memorable. Asking her how she is doing is not memorable. As for your current situation, since you are already in it, I would advise not even replying to that text, and then texting her when you have something better, such as you two getting together! Although you haven't given any details as to how you two met, etc, so proper advice would need that sort of background.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Scars said:
My w0manese translator says: "I have really low interest in you right now. I went out drinking with my girlfriends last night and fvcked some random guy. Now I'm waking up with a hangover and have buyers remorse. You are the least of my concerns right now. Please stop talking to me. Good night."

-Scars
LOL nice. The OP's question is in fact noob royale.

P.S. just make a joke about her. She probably has hangovers from time to time and it's really no big deal. Homoness aside, If I had an hangover and you showed compassion to me I'd be like "thanks. it'll go away eventually," meaning it's no big deal!
 

Poonani Maker

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I wouldn't even message her after that. It's not worth my reply, because I have multiple others (and a choice of ones to fvck at the drop of a hat). Seriously, not every woman (I'd say 70% of them) deserves a response. It's best to just forget em and leave em. Once you've got your willing ones, you won't feel the NEED to answer every disinterested b!tch who gives you a token or disrespectful answer or blowoff. You just let her be the last one to send a msg. You don't have to get in the last word. I see no opportunities in ANY response you give to the msg she just sent you. None. Just let it be and move on.

But if you wanted to just fvck around with this one, you could answer, "you drunk.." Remember, make them Angry or make them happy, no in between, no boring.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Forget about her. Don't ever text her again until she contacts you.
 

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I'm not sure if the word "have" is simply a typo or not.

If she orignially meant to say: I feel not so good today cuz I drank last night...I hope you have a good night.

It simply means she doesn't want to talk to you.

If she originally meant to say: I feel not so good today cuz I drank last night...I hope you had a good night

It means she doesn't dislike you, but it doesn't sound like she's that interested in you either. Seems like you landed in the friends zone, I'm willing to bet that you didn't flirt enough and create enough sexual tension with her.

Either way, don't text her again until she contacts you.
 

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escaleraroyal said:
Me: It was nice meeting you. How are you today?
She: I feel not so good today cuz I drank last night...I hope you have a good night.


I dont know how to responde to her text. Please help me
Should I text back with a tease or should I show compassion and reasssure her??
Well, in what context did you get this girl's number?

Her complete lack of interest/banter makes it sound like you got her number in some weird, non-flirtatious way.
 

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Me: It was nice meeting you. How are you today?
She: I feel not so good today cuz I drank last night...I hope you have a good night.

You: I always do ; )

...and seriously, stop worrying so much about it. Until you actually know her and have something resembling a relationship, she is dispensable (but that doesn't mean she's out hooking up with other guys despite what these misogynist tell you).
 

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^ but you say "I almost always do ; )" if you Really always do, great. I always do for real almost as long as I get a fvck. That's a good text that the OP can use at this point, and it doesn't matter when he sends it, he could send it now, a day or two later, and it would still be good, because basically, I don't think that she's gonna answer it anyway. HE is going to have to, yet again, make another approach in order to ever be in contact with her again I'd imagine no matter what final text he sends her, but I wouldn't even go at this one again. I'd just let her loose.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mike32ct

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Scars said:
My w0manese translator says: "I have really low interest in you right now. I went out drinking with my girlfriends last night and fvcked some random guy. Now I'm waking up with a hangover and have buyers remorse. You are the least of my concerns right now. Please stop talking to me. Good night."

-Scars
^This.
 
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