"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to respond to a flake?

Rhoto

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T|CK said:
I just got a text message from a chick I had a date with tomorrow. She canceled our date and had some lame excuse. What's the best way to respond?

I figured I'd either just say "ok" or not respond at all.

I don't want to act like I'm mad. I just want to show that I'm better than that ****.
Don't respond period. Let her sweat you out for a week, if she calls you back and wants a new date, you're in for the most part.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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imo you have a couple of options when it comes to this situation. If it's a first time flake and she lets you know in advance either replying with "thanks for letting me know, chat soon" or no reply can work. It's all the guys who become aggressive and demand to see the girl which makes flaking such a taboo subject and conditions girls to flake without giving warning. Now from here I would leave it a week or so then call her. If she doesn't answer send a text. No reply. Try again a week or two later, no answer. or returned call. next her. You don't know the circumstances and although nexting any girl who "disses" you is a great ego guard, and I used to do it. I've had a lot more success by saying "thanks". Maybe she has a boyfriend, or any number of other things. It's actually pointless guessing. But brush it off..unless she flakes by not turning up or cancelling minutes before or after the date or doesn't let you know. These are require diff tactics...
 
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