"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to respond, please help.

Yoko Kurama

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This is about a girl that I like. Anyway....

I was walking to my last hour of the day, just out of Gym. I saw her walk into history class, I only have one class with her and that is Spanish. So I saw her walk in, she dropped off her handbag in the classroom, I was just walking by when I saw her walking out, I smiled at her she smiled back, so I slowed down a bit, think she was going to catch up, she comes up behind me and pushes me, playing of course, and says "I saw you walking slower for me" I turned around, smiled, she then skits into the girls bathroom. How should I flirt back? I know different girls can be flirted with in different ways, thanks?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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War Against Betaism

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Flirting is more about mindset. An AFC could have all the best lines and still look like a dork. You should think that this girl is like your little brother or sister, don't be afraid to apply kino as well, flirting is 10x stronger with contact. What you could have said was "Yeah it's about time you caught up!" while being playful about it.
 
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IMHO, if you dont have anything good to say, you could just look her into her eyes deeply and smile or grin.

Creating sexual tension is often quite simple. We are animals. Creating sexual tension or flirting doesnt require complex sentences or punchlines or whatever, although that could be good too if it comes natuarlly.
 

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Someone should make a thread about how not EVERYTHING can be planned out. I've read so many threads with AFCs saying "oh if a girl says this, what do I say back?"

No, there is no planned out response for everything a girl says.
You just go with the flow. Don't over-analyze what your about to say or what she says, it'll screw you up.
Just relax, be calm and let the words flow out of you naturally.

Some of my smoothest lines were from me just being in the moment and making something up out of nowhere! After I'd be like "What the hell? That was pretty good, how did I think of that?"

Just be in the moment of not caring what you say. Sure you might make a few mistakes at first, but you'll learn won't you?
Once you learn it enough it'll just come naturally. No more thinking, (or very little of it) just mostly action action action! Thats what it comes naturally!

Good luck bro. Remember, don't think too much...just do. There isn't a response for everything a girl says. :cool:
 
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