"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to respond (is this a sh*t test or just random)

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This girl in my class called me an jacka** when I busted on her for playing solitaire during class. she said "it was freecell jacka**. I just did a sarcastic laugh like "ha".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you're right - I gotta get out of this 'mental chess game' mode - where I see my interactions with women as some battle to be won and always have the upper hand in.
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
you're right - I gotta get out of this 'mental chess game' mode - where I see my interactions with women as some battle to be won and always have the upper hand in.
Good that you noticed you have to change . Whats screwing you and most of the guys here up is micro analization of every situation . Just let it flaw .
Dont look anything . Just let the conversation flaw . Be positive but not a wuss and thats all you need .
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
you're right - I gotta get out of this 'mental chess game' mode - where I see my interactions with women as some battle to be won and always have the upper hand in.
Remember, she loves sex too.

You're both on the same team, not against each other.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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