"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to reply when you get called out for not replying?

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Tomo

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I make it a thing now that I am rarely the last to reply in a text conversation. One girl has called me out on it saying she wants the conversation to keep going or she is waiting for a reply but I never do. I counter teasing her that I'm always the one initiating so that makes it fare or why does she not text me first. Neither of us ever doubles up texting each other.

We go back and forth but just wondering how does anyone else reply to scenarios such as this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MOTU

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Careful, could be a sh!t test. Are you fvcking this girl? I would say something to deflect "I like texting you too baby" or "glad you like texting me" but never answer as to why you don't respond more.

This one has been hard for me too with my current plate #1, I have to remind myself it's ok to not respond and it's ok to not respond when she says things like "I am beginning to think you don't like me anymore". Then the next day I just start a new convo.
 
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