Learning Curve
Senior Don Juan
I'm sure most of us are aware of what neediness and clinginess creates for women.
I have been there, having a woman that was a 10 in my eyes, and when there is interest from her side your stomach can't handle it. You can't believe she is actually interested. You are too nice. You start to develop traits of a beta. You are there to make the princess happy.
Once you enter that phase you are done.
Over-texting is enabled, over-pursuing is enabled, and you get emotional and eventually, the woman disappears.
This was my case from the age of 19-25 with every single woman being gone within 2 weeks. I never really understood why until I realized how my parents raised me in a dysfunctional f3ucked-up family with no love to give. This was enabling my behavior to receive love from women, I was expecting them to fill my glass which was empty all the time.
This is the case with most guys and I can see this from friends and relatives. Once you have your glass empty and you expect to receive love you have no choice but to seek it from somewhere. And if a woman rejects you, it translates to your past as this sets the default state of your inner self.
How I changed, was to enable pain. Which was hard but you have to go through it. Every single rejection embrace it and move on eventually your emotional inner-self develops into a rock. You can't be rejected anymore because you simply don't care. You train your emotional state like a soldier, abundance should be your default state.
This will eventually attract the kind of woman you want in your life.
I have been there, having a woman that was a 10 in my eyes, and when there is interest from her side your stomach can't handle it. You can't believe she is actually interested. You are too nice. You start to develop traits of a beta. You are there to make the princess happy.
Once you enter that phase you are done.
Over-texting is enabled, over-pursuing is enabled, and you get emotional and eventually, the woman disappears.
This was my case from the age of 19-25 with every single woman being gone within 2 weeks. I never really understood why until I realized how my parents raised me in a dysfunctional f3ucked-up family with no love to give. This was enabling my behavior to receive love from women, I was expecting them to fill my glass which was empty all the time.
This is the case with most guys and I can see this from friends and relatives. Once you have your glass empty and you expect to receive love you have no choice but to seek it from somewhere. And if a woman rejects you, it translates to your past as this sets the default state of your inner self.
How I changed, was to enable pain. Which was hard but you have to go through it. Every single rejection embrace it and move on eventually your emotional inner-self develops into a rock. You can't be rejected anymore because you simply don't care. You train your emotional state like a soldier, abundance should be your default state.
This will eventually attract the kind of woman you want in your life.
