How to reject a girl in your circle

[dmvdav]

Pretty much what the title says.

I have a few "circles" of friends, and i try not to mix them together. One circle has the guys i grew up with and like hanging out with. The rest are pretty much just for getting girls. not sure if that's messed up, but whatever. My guy friends aren't even close to "red pill aware" or whatever you want to call it. It's rare for a girl to show up in that group unless she's dating one of us.

A close friends's GF has been bringing her friend around, mostly so she could meet me. Obviously that's awesome, except i'm not attracted to this girl...

She's been getting more and more aggressive in flirting with me, and I know soon it's going to turn into her straight up asking me, or trying to make out with me.

I've "rejected" girls in the past with "im not looking for a relationship" and similar excuses, but i'm wondering how you'd handle it when your close friends are involved.

basically i want to avoid getting on these girl's bad side in case a girl i like comes along.

 

[TheException]

I know soon it's going to turn into her straight up asking me, or trying to make out with me.

Dont think about "what if's". Your seeing the true nature of game and how counter-intuitive it is. The more you ignore her/dont reciprocate...the more attracted she becomes to you.

i'm wondering how you'd handle it

Keep doing what your doing. When the time comes a simple "Your not my type" works.

 

[PlayHer Man]

This is an imaginary "problem". I've had many girls come onto me over the years whom I've had no interest in.

Take some time to think about how a woman in your "circle" who had no sexual interest in you would react if you came onto her. Think about how unapologetic she would be over her lack of interest. At best should would exploit your interest in her or "friend zone" you. At worst she would be a b!tch about it or avoid you.

So what should you do? --> NOTHING.

A man doesn't have to explain himself when it comes to attraction or a lack thereof. If you must say something.. say: "I can't". If she asks why, say: "I just can't". Then change the subject.

No explanation is necessary.

 

[Trump]

Pretty much what the title says.

I have a few "circles" of friends, and i try not to mix them together. One circle has the guys i grew up with and like hanging out with. The rest are pretty much just for getting girls. not sure if that's messed up, but whatever. My guy friends aren't even close to "red pill aware" or whatever you want to call it. It's rare for a girl to show up in that group unless she's dating one of us.

A close friends's GF has been bringing her friend around, mostly so she could meet me. Obviously that's awesome, except i'm not attracted to this girl...

She's been getting more and more aggressive in flirting with me, and I know soon it's going to turn into her straight up asking me, or trying to make out with me.

I've "rejected" girls in the past with "im not looking for a relationship" and similar excuses, but i'm wondering how you'd handle it when your close friends are involved.

basically i want to avoid getting on these girl's bad side in case a girl i like comes along.

As said above, you are worried about what to say to a girl who you don't like on the off chance her friend may bring a girl you do like around to date? Low odds.

If push comes to shove, just say "you are a very sweet sweet girl, but not my type."

 

[dmvdav]

Do what women do. Pre-emptively call her a friend.

ha i feel that.

thanks for the advice guys. i'm thinking about it too much.